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Photos in girlfriends room.
In my girlfriends room there is a photograph of all the men in her class, all in this nice love photoframe in a prominent position on her bedside cabinet. I dont feel too comfortable with this, but i dont want to say anything because she might get moody and think i am being irrational. Would anyone else feel uncomfortable with this if they go in their girlfriends bedroom to find a picture of a group of men in a photoframe next to her bed. Any thoughts and suggestions on what i should do would be greatly appreciated.
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Reply 1
I would just tell her you are not comfortable with it, best to be honest with her.
Reply 2
How long have you been going out with her?
I wouldn't say you would be out of order if you did mention it. You don't necessarily have to ask her why she has it there, ask who the guys are and judge by her reaction why the photo is there.
I wouldn't say you would be out of order if you did mention it. You don't necessarily have to ask her why she has it there, ask who the guys are and judge by her reaction why the photo is there.
Reply 3
do you think she would be angry with me though, or should she respect that i feel uncomfortable with it and she should agree to put it away or something.
Reply 4
i have been going out with her for about four and a half months but have known her for about 3 years now.
i wouldnt say anything. Make the problem worse than it actually is. Id be more concerned if it was only one person, but as its a group ~ i just think its a friendship thing, and if she actually felt that way about them all, do you think she'd let you see the photo next to her head in a heart-shaped frame? =))
Reply 6
I wouldn't worry about it. It would be different if they were all girls, that'd be fine!
I think the tell-tale sign would be if she had one guy's picture in a heart shaped frame in a prominent place in her room.
I think the tell-tale sign would be if she had one guy's picture in a heart shaped frame in a prominent place in her room.
Reply 7
jinx mangaroo!
Reply 8
But why would she have a group photo of them, no other girl i know has one, yet pot luck, the girl i do date has one. there isnt one of any girls in her room or anything. Just worries me a bit thats all.
Reply 9
Anonymous
do you think she would be angry with me though, or should she respect that i feel uncomfortable with it and she should agree to put it away or something.
Not necessarily.
If you are going to bring it up, what matters is the manner in which you do so. Be calm and cool, make it seem as though you are just interested in the photograph.
Reply 10
it means shes had kinky group sex with all of them and you should dump her now
Reply 11
I don't think her having a group photo of her classmates (albeit just the male ones) is any reason to feel worried. I think you're being insecure, frankly.
Reply 12
Why do you think she would have a group photo of all the boys in her class right beside her bed. Can you list all the possible explanations. Also if i do ask her about it, what is the best way to approach it.
Reply 13
If you take the photo out of the frame, on the back is a list of all their names and whether she has slept with them yet. 
I'm sure there's a perfectly fine explanation to it, just ask her.
I'm sure there's a perfectly fine explanation to it, just ask her.
Reply 14
Anonymous
Why do you think she would have a group photo of all the boys in her class right beside her bed. Can you list all the possible explanations. Also if i do ask her about it, what is the best way to approach it.
yep no other explanation than kinky group sex.
edit: or waht sazarina said
Reply 15
You've known her for 3 years? Am I right assuming you had been in her room before you were going out? Photos are one thing, seeing all these people (individually) is another. I can't really tell you what I would do because I accidentally went out with a crazy guy who made me throw loads of stuff away because he didn't like it and then went mad that I still had a pair of boots that my ex bought me. Just asking who the people are seems fair enough to me, but I don't think its anything to worry about, just don't let it go to far. (yes, I am neurotic and slightly mad, so you can ignore me if you wish!
Maybe she was abit of a tomboy at school??? i know alot of girls who have mainly guy mates and thats all it is.
If you want to find out who they are just bring it up in casual conversation, like if your near the photo just say
"Who are these lot then???"
Don't say it in a accusing threatening way just say it in a curious interested way and youll know if to be suspicious or anything by how she responds.
If you want to find out who they are just bring it up in casual conversation, like if your near the photo just say
"Who are these lot then???"
Don't say it in a accusing threatening way just say it in a curious interested way and youll know if to be suspicious or anything by how she responds.
Reply 17
Sticky
Guys who aren't willing to share are jealous?
The girl has a picture of a group of guys from her class. Whats the problem? I've got pictures of "the girls" and "the lads" and "all mates" from School/College around the room. Whats the big deal?
Dude is hyper-jealous.
Reply 18
aye i agree. best being honest mate. just tell her
Reply 19
You could always find out how she likes it by sticking a nice heart shaped frame of a group of girls you know next to your bed....
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