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No Strength To Finish It...

She probably is the only gal ive ever been out with and got close with that has so many self created problems, yet she still seems to me that shes so genuine.

Shes a girl that has many guys friends, which her best mate is a guy mate (keeps in contact every day by emails, phone and person).

Her family wants her to have an arranged marriage with some guy the family knows. She originally got engaged to him but then few months back broke it off but she doesn't know if she will marry him in the future or not because of the family pressure.

As for me and her. She can only give me friendship but in the past she gave me more. We speak about so much on the phone and to which its so comfortable. She says she cant have conversations with me like with others and she feels what I feel but she can't act on them because of the above reasons.

Shes naturally blonde so she does and says thins without thinking that much and hence why she doesnt realise her ways with all guys can cause complications (as some in the past have fallen for her). According to her it has only been me who has impacted on her and hence we shared a spell of 2 months of a relationship which ended for the above reasons as well.

Reply 1

That's so sad..maybe she should stand up, be counted, and marry for love..altho tis easier said than done

Reply 2

Anonymous
Shes naturally blonde so she does and says thins without thinking that much and hence why she doesnt realise her ways with all guys can cause complications


You do realise that the whole "blondes are stupid" thing is a joke, right? Her hair colour doesn't explain her inability to understand the consequences of some of her actions.

Reply 3

Chumbaniya
You do realise that the whole "blondes are stupid" thing is a joke, right? Her hair colour doesn't explain her inability to understand the consequences of some of her actions.


She does understand and she ain't stupid but I meant blonde in a sense she acts like she doesn't understand and she doesn't do that intentionally. I mean she didnt even realise, one x in a text message counted as a kiss and she thought only 3 x's meant a kiss.

Reply 4

This sucks, shes telling me she would even marry me if there wasnt this issue wid her family. She goes that me and her just click and shes never felt this with any 1 else but she has to do whats right.

Reply 5

Chumbaniya
You do realise that the whole "blondes are stupid" thing is a joke, right? Her hair colour doesn't explain her inability to understand the consequences of some of her actions.


My thoughts exactly, I can't actually believe OP said that. I am naturally blond and I understand exactly the consiquences of my actions. Seems like everyone is trying to rush into marriage here. Do I smell a troll?

Reply 6

Arranged marriage? WHAt!

Sorry to hear it tho.

Reply 7

Anonymous
I mean she didnt even realise, one x in a text message counted as a kiss and she thought only 3 x's meant a kiss.


Now that is stupidity. I'm surprised she remembers to breathe in and out.:rolleyes: