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Is my penis too small?

My penis just seems very small to me and it has made me extremely apprehensive about having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful and we've been going out for around 4/5 months now... She keeps on asking me for sex but I just can't do it! :frown: ! I don't know if my penis is too small - it certainly looks very small both flaccid and erect. It has been a while since I measured it but from what I remember it was around 2.5-3 inches flaccid and 5.75 inches erect. Is this too small? Or normal? Or what? My girlfriend has never seen my penis (I'm too embarrassed) and now it's getting to a point where she thinks something's going on...

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Original post by Anonymous
My penis just seems very small to me and it has made me extremely apprehensive about having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful and we've been going out for around 4/5 months now... She keeps on asking me for sex but I just can't do it! :frown: ! I don't know if my penis is too small - it certainly looks very small both flaccid and erect. It has been a while since I measured it but from what I remember it was around 2.5-3 inches flaccid and 5.75 inches erect. Is this too small? Or normal? Or what? My girlfriend has never seen my penis (I'm too embarrassed) and now it's getting to a point where she thinks something's going on...


That size is fine.

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Original post by Anonymous
My penis just seems very small to me and it has made me extremely apprehensive about having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful and we've been going out for around 4/5 months now... She keeps on asking me for sex but I just can't do it! :frown: ! I don't know if my penis is too small - it certainly looks very small both flaccid and erect. It has been a while since I measured it but from what I remember it was around 2.5-3 inches flaccid and 5.75 inches erect. Is this too small? Or normal? Or what? My girlfriend has never seen my penis (I'm too embarrassed) and now it's getting to a point where she thinks something's going on...


It's fine. The average for the uk is 5.5 iirc


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I thought the average penis size was 5 inches. I wouldn't worry too much. Also, if she really likes you or loves you it shouldn't bother her. (Talking from experience as it didn't bother me and I think the one I encountered was smaller than that but I don't know for sure as I didn't measure it ofc)
Staggeringly normal.
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Thank you, we finally had sex and she seemed more than pleased with my size so that's always good :biggrin:!
Original post by Anonymous
Thank you, we finally had sex and she seemed more than pleased with my size so that's always good :biggrin:!


Good to hear. :hat2:
Phew.

I though having a 3.5 unerrect wasnt normal, and 6 inches erect wasnt normal.

I guess iv been watching too many pornos and got the wrong idea.

And i guess im one of the lucky asians too.
Original post by Anonymous
My penis just seems very small to me and it has made me extremely apprehensive about having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful and we've been going out for around 4/5 months now... She keeps on asking me for sex but I just can't do it! :frown: ! I don't know if my penis is too small - it certainly looks very small both flaccid and erect. It has been a while since I measured it but from what I remember it was around 2.5-3 inches flaccid and 5.75 inches erect. Is this too small? Or normal? Or what? My girlfriend has never seen my penis (I'm too embarrassed) and now it's getting to a point where she thinks something's going on...


That is average maybe even slightly above. I wouldn't stress about it.
Original post by Anonymous
Phew.

I though having a 3.5 unerrect wasnt normal, and 6 inches erect wasnt normal.

I guess iv been watching too many pornos and got the wrong idea.

And i guess im one of the lucky asians too.


This is an example of why the large majority of porn is a freak show.

It is to sex ed what The Fast and the Furious series is to driving lessons.
That size is perfectly normal, perhaps even slightly above average.

Either way if your relationship is strong enough then something like that shouldn't matter. I'm a bit on the small side myself and whilst it caused me embarrassment at first I've just gotten over it and it hasn't caused any problems in my relationships. Having to buy small sized condoms can be embarrassing still though, thankfully Boots have self service check-outs!
You should consider getting a bigger penis
Original post by Anonymous
My penis just seems very small to me and it has made me extremely apprehensive about having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful and we've been going out for around 4/5 months now... She keeps on asking me for sex but I just can't do it! :frown: ! I don't know if my penis is too small - it certainly looks very small both flaccid and erect. It has been a while since I measured it but from what I remember it was around 2.5-3 inches flaccid and 5.75 inches erect. Is this too small? Or normal? Or what? My girlfriend has never seen my penis (I'm too embarrassed) and now it's getting to a point where she thinks something's going on...


It's the thickness that counts at the end of the day... :smile:
Its ok, don't worry about that!!
Average size penis and when you consider the average size of a woman's vagina is 3-5 inches...

I'll let you in on a secret tbh OP... a lot of women have sex toys. Guess what the average size of the bog standard dildo is.
If your girl wants to do it and you're comfortable with it...
go for it! if she is put off by your size then she just wants
to be with you for sex. your 'measurement' is a perfect size
if you ask me. Hope it goes well :wink:
That's the normal size
You know, when I was younger and extremely sexually active, I never thought about my **** size. I mean, I had sex with lots of both M and F, and so I saw other guys' dicks, but my size in comparison never crossed my mind. Then, later on when I wasn't having as much wild sex, lol, I visited a website often where many guys posted **** pics, and saw many huge ones. That was the first time I started worrying about my own size: I wasn't having sex much, and looking at big ones, and tha's when I started worrying. When I was using it a lot, and getting plenty of satisfaction from it, it never bothered me for a second. It may be fun to look at big dicks, but, it's not a good idea for one's self esteem (unless you're one of the biggest, lol)
Is 5.5 inches okay for a 13 year old (erect)
It's fine. Now just go and bang your girlfriend!

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