so sad i cant sleep

was stupid enough to go out with a best friend.

my best friend.

and now hes decided he's met anouther girl. and he doesnt want me anymore.

and

i feel so

broken.

Reply 1

HereFishyFishy

13

That's horrible :frown:

But hun, if he really was your best friend would he ever have done such a thing? You make it sound like he's just dropped you - like that?

Reply 2

in_vogue

3

I'm sorry, that's a really ****ty situation. There's nothing that can be said really to make you feel better, except that if he is the good friend you say he is, he will get in touch and try to continue your friendship where you left off.
At least you'll never be asking yourself ''what if''? You experienced what you wanted to, and it could have gone either way.
Whatever you do, don't hound him. He's found someone new now, so I'd give him a while in his new relationship before confronting him.

Reply 3

Sezkin

11

curryADD

was stupid enough to go out with a best friend.

my best friend.

and now hes decided he's met anouther girl. and he doesnt want me anymore.

and

i feel so

broken.

Awww,

I say try and get over him first; time does heal a broken heart, also it's best to leave him alone for a while, I know it's hard but you don't want to pester him; it'll push him away from you...and if you leave him alone, hopefully he'll realise what he is missing out on.

Hope that helps.

And here's a little hug - :hugs:

Sezkin

Reply 4

kabi

*hugs*, agree with ^^ if he is a good friend he will think about how you feel and see how you are. try and do other things that take your mind off him i.e go out with some mates take up a new hobby anything which will get your mind of him, give it time and im sure you'll be alright

good luck :smile:

Reply 5

username47781

20

Yeah if he was truely a best friend or boyfriend he would not have done that to you, you're better off without him.

Reply 6

amywalters

1

I understand, but the good factor of being friends is that you can seem to get through most things together. When me and my partner argue, we tend to take it as an argument as if we were friends and never get our feelings involved and less they have to be, asif we were friends - and that way it never affects our boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

What I mean is, being friends can have its benefits as well as its doubts, you clearly know him well and vice versa so just talk through it, you dont have to be afraid of him playing mind games with you because he's a friend and there is no need for game playing. Tell him straight out how hurt you are, and im sure he'll support you through it.

These kinds of things happen to everybody, even if you weren't friends, and even if he did go off which is horrible in itself, it doesnt mean he is a bad friend and definately doesnt mean his intention was to hurt you. Just move on forward and remind yourself that okay, he wasnt perfect for you in a relationship, but you must like him enough to be his friend, and i dont see why your platonic relationship should be stopped because of it.

so sad i cant sleep

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