No Erection Problem

Hi all,

I have been with my other half for 4 years now and we have a healthy sexual relationship (I mean we don't do it as much as we used to but that's normal I guess) anyway other half wanted sex last night and I didn't object... However I couldn't get fully erect at all :/ I even came but still was not fully erect.... Now they think something is "up" or something is "on my mind"

Is this normal? Pretty worried

I am 26 by the way

Reply 1

unprinted

The answer is probably in the words "I didn't object", as it sounds like you were not fully into what was happening.

In any case, this sort of thing happens to almost everyone, male or female. It's more visible with men, but women have times when they're not as turned on as others.

In future, consider doing stuff to get you more in the mood or just acknowledge that you're not there at the moment - all sorts of things can be a distraction - and do something that doesn't involve you needing to have a full erection.