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I'm nervous about seeing my friend...
Aaaargh. Ok, so I'm going out with one of my friends tonight. It just happens to be the same friend that I had a *huge* major crush on about 2 years ago... I thought it had gone away but last time I saw her everything just came back to me and it just made me realise why I had such an enormous crush on her.
It's just gonna be me and her and I know it's going to be so awkward... I have a feeling I'm going to end up over-covering the fact that I'm really attracted to her by being cold or something. I should be really happy, I've not seen her in ages and tonight should be a really good catch up sesh. But y'know, nerves... alcohol... this could be a disaster.
What do I do?! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh!
It's just gonna be me and her and I know it's going to be so awkward... I have a feeling I'm going to end up over-covering the fact that I'm really attracted to her by being cold or something. I should be really happy, I've not seen her in ages and tonight should be a really good catch up sesh. But y'know, nerves... alcohol... this could be a disaster.
What do I do?! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh!
All you can do is be yourself, see how the night goes with her, just you know chat about normal things, and if your worried about making a fool of yourself remember you don't need alchohol to have a good time.
If the feelings come back why not act on them? Have you tried asking her out?
Tractor-girlie
If the feelings come back why not act on them? Have you tried asking her out?
I've not acted on them because I know there isn't a chance in hell of me being successful. I'm not into beating myself up anymore than I already am about this really lol.
Shreerac1
?How did you come to be going out with her tonight
She rang and asked me... it's what mates do...
How often do you see this friend? If its fairly often then just act as naturally as you did last time. Also, if she asked you to go out, then maybe she's thinking about moving things along a bit?
However, also remember that you dont want to look back and regret anything. So telling her how you feel may be a good idea.
However, also remember that you dont want to look back and regret anything. So telling her how you feel may be a good idea.
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