What attracts me, for love, is a sense of inherent goodness or decency about the person and real energy for life, for whatever theyre into
Lust-wise, its that energy that hooks me in- if a person has a passion for something i can relate to, even if im not directly interested in that thing myself. I need that to feel the connection
Looks...hmm thats a funny one. No matter how good looking a guy is and therefore i wanna kiss him or whatever, if i dont get to know him, i dont really care about him. Its funny. Though i do notice that all men i fall for properly are dark and a bit rough round the edges...smooth pretty boys arouse no fire in me whatsoever!
Then, obviously, theres something else, that i havent a clue how to describe, that i have no control over, which makes me very picky indeed and i wish i could understand it and not only REALLY like one guy once in a blue moon