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Relationship maintenance

How do you keep a relationship going alive and well? My relationship with my boyfriend has gone a bit stale and I was wandering what kind of things you do to get it going again? Things like dressing up etc but I am clueless for ideas. :frown:

Thanks.

Reply 1

Chewwy

17

dressing up? in what way?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Dressing up in an attractive way and a naughty way (do not want to expand as thread could get closed).

Reply 3

Merryweather

i think the thread starter is referring to the dressing up as random people in the street to trick each other as they go about their lives...
....thats a difficult question...i'd say maybe make sure you do lots of different things...i.e. to not get stuck into a set routine so life becomes predictable...i'm afraid thats about it for my advice... :frown:

*hides head in shame* X

Reply 4

username47781

20

Well perhaps do something different, maybe go out somewhere.

Reply 5

Anthonyjm71

9

Have a walk to the beach. :smile:

Reply 6

sophieliz

12

Are you talking about your relationship or your sex life? there is a difference.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

A bit of both really, more the relationship

Reply 8

*Josephenuss!*

see your friends more, then when you do see him will be good.

Reply 9

rosetinted

2

Well..to state the obvious. If things are boring it's probably because you are stuck in a rut. Make an effort to change things. Suggest doing something you don't normally do together, go somewhere different, take a weekend break somewhere or take some time to yourself.

Things are becoming boring because you are both letting them, maybe have a casual chat about whether you both feel things are a bit stale. He may feel things are comfy and you might be bored. If you talk to him then at least both of you can acknowledge the problem and both contribute to keeping the relationship fresh.

Reply 10

Chumbaniya

17

Anthonyjm71

Have a walk to the beach. :smile:

Unless they live close to the sea, it's probably advisable to get to the beach by some other method of transportation and then walk on the beach. Otherwise they could end up taking quite a while. :wink:

EDIT: Threatening to leave him might force him to make things more interesting for you :p:

Reply 11

*Josephenuss!*

its sounds like ure a married couple, dont get to drawn into doing the bf anf gf sinerio! go out get drunk tgther, see your mates give u sumthing to talk about!

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