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Problems with my friend/ex-girlf! :(
RIght, so i broke up with my girlf over a year ago (coz she cheated on me, for the second time) and i'm WELL over it. I'm in the happiest relationship, i'm in love (well im only 18, but....) with my current girlf, shes AMAZING!
2 years ago, i went travelling for a month with a youth movement and met some AMAZING friends (incidentally, whilst i was there, my ex-girlf lost her virginity....to some1 else), and i've kept in contact with a few of them.
One of my friends met my girlf one of the times he came up to visit me and she got quite friendly with him, over the time (purely plutonic). I invited him and a friend up to visit and stay with me and she was pestering me to be involved in the plans (which i agreed to, coz im too nice). She tried it on BIG TIME with him, but he was having none of it (
), so then she moved onto the friend (Bearing in mind, she had conveniently broken up with her boyf the NIGHT before), who succumbed to her charms. Which is fine.
So he calls me 3 days later and tells me hes coming up again next week (which is now this week) saying hes gonna stay at hers monday, tuesday n see me on weds night n stay at mine weds. SO it was all good, i gave him my blessing to sh*g her, etc. etc.....
SOO....it comes to tuesday (yesterday) and my best friend (who is also friends with the boy that came up) gets a call from my ex. saying that her and 'FRIEND' are officially going out. I find out and am jumping for joy, NOT!
So i'm waiting for a call ALL of weds afternoon (today) and i don't get one(considering im meant to be doing something with him tonight). SO i call him and he said that he and my ex. have plans tonight, but can he still sleep at mine, because she can't have anyone over tonight. I say, 'no'. I think it's very rude how he expects to use my hospitality but spend all his time with skanky whore! He says, 'yeah, ur right. It is rude, I'll do something with you tonight....I'll call you back soon!' I get a call back in 20 mins, 'Actually, i can't get out of my plans with superwhore, so i'll just see you tomorrow, i can stay at hers now!'
GRRRR....im sooo annoyed. He's been a good friend for 2 years! and he ditches me for my ex-girlf who hes known less that a week! i'm SO pissed off!
AM i being selfish? AAARGH!
I don't know who i'm more pissed off at! probably her, because he doesn't live anywhere near me and thus doesn't truly understand the situation!
I needed to get that off my chest!
2 years ago, i went travelling for a month with a youth movement and met some AMAZING friends (incidentally, whilst i was there, my ex-girlf lost her virginity....to some1 else), and i've kept in contact with a few of them.
One of my friends met my girlf one of the times he came up to visit me and she got quite friendly with him, over the time (purely plutonic). I invited him and a friend up to visit and stay with me and she was pestering me to be involved in the plans (which i agreed to, coz im too nice). She tried it on BIG TIME with him, but he was having none of it (
), so then she moved onto the friend (Bearing in mind, she had conveniently broken up with her boyf the NIGHT before), who succumbed to her charms. Which is fine. So he calls me 3 days later and tells me hes coming up again next week (which is now this week) saying hes gonna stay at hers monday, tuesday n see me on weds night n stay at mine weds. SO it was all good, i gave him my blessing to sh*g her, etc. etc.....
SOO....it comes to tuesday (yesterday) and my best friend (who is also friends with the boy that came up) gets a call from my ex. saying that her and 'FRIEND' are officially going out. I find out and am jumping for joy, NOT!
So i'm waiting for a call ALL of weds afternoon (today) and i don't get one(considering im meant to be doing something with him tonight). SO i call him and he said that he and my ex. have plans tonight, but can he still sleep at mine, because she can't have anyone over tonight. I say, 'no'. I think it's very rude how he expects to use my hospitality but spend all his time with skanky whore! He says, 'yeah, ur right. It is rude, I'll do something with you tonight....I'll call you back soon!' I get a call back in 20 mins, 'Actually, i can't get out of my plans with superwhore, so i'll just see you tomorrow, i can stay at hers now!'
GRRRR....im sooo annoyed. He's been a good friend for 2 years! and he ditches me for my ex-girlf who hes known less that a week! i'm SO pissed off!
AM i being selfish? AAARGH!
I don't know who i'm more pissed off at! probably her, because he doesn't live anywhere near me and thus doesn't truly understand the situation!
I needed to get that off my chest!
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Reply 4
Juwel
While I'm quick to say "bros before hos" and that you have a point, best discuss it in the clear light of tomorrow. Let him know you're OK with the relationship except when it infringes on your friendship.
I will! but i needed to vent my frustration!
I'm FINE with their relationship BUT....grrr....
why does she have to get her p*ssy on everyone! Shes 18 and the number of her sexual partners is in double figures!
AND she'll still probably text me in a few weeks, asking me to 'forgive her and have her back! i love those texts, they're SO funny!
Reply 6
Yeah best to let him know your disappointed, least you did the right thing in dumping her.
Anonymous
why does she have to get her p*ssy on everyone! Shes 18 and the number of her sexual partners is in double figures!
That's her business, you're no longer involved. If she wants to sleep with every man in the county, she can.
AND she'll still probably text me in a few weeks, asking me to 'forgive her and have her back! i love those texts, they're SO funny!
So ignore it.
Reply 10
norelle
If you broke up with her over a year ago, why are you still pissed off with her?
Because shes stealing my friend! (i KNOW how childish that sounds!)
He lives over 200 miles away and i was meant to see him for ONE evening, and he ditched me, for her!
I'm not pissed off at her for cheating on me, (well i am, but i dont care anymore!)
Reply 11
Juwel
Glad we could help.
By the way, what's her number?
By the way, what's her number?
I'd PM you, but then you'd know who i was! lol
Reply 13
At the end of the day she'll be the one with an STD.
Reply 15
saoirse
im confused- basically your ex is going with your mate, oui?
Yeah, but i'm not bothered they're going out.
I'm pissed off that she stopped him seeing me for the one single evening he was meant to!
Reply 16
Your ex sounds like she likes to wrap men around her little finger.
Reply 19
saoirse
you dont honestly sound like your over her to me- it seems to be rankling with you that she has other partners...
i REALLY, REALLY am! i'm not bothered how many boys she sleeps with (i only included it for effect), it's just that she's a cow for brain-washing MY firend and not letting him see me.
He's a bit of a nob too, for not being strong enough to stand up to his 1-day girlf and tell her hes gona go and see his friend, who he hardly ever sees!
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