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2 problems! but u mit think there are weird!

hay everyone!!
hummm this might be more than one problem so any advice would be nice! and im sorry if this turns into long post.
okay humm the thing is i feel very different 2day!!
its like a feeling i have had for a while now! the thing is i dont like the way i dress or look, i got an oval face and i just hate it! i mean sometimes i feel like im very pretty but I dono, i guess i saw my cosines pics and both of them are very pretty and i just feel down because im not good enough, i'm shy to do little things! I mean i'm too shy to ask my sister for the hair straighter and too shy to ask her if she can do my eyebrows! its sad i know and might be a shock to the girls! hehe
also my sister said awwwww she sweet to one of me cousins, you could call it jealously but that mad me feel awful because im not sweet enough! and too shy
Secondly i have a long distance relationship and i haven’t received a mail from my bf! It’s about 10:25 their time and he should have mailed because he sleeps at 10! I think he might be late but I really doubt it as i normal get one around 12!
please help me!! i mean i almost want to cry now but its silly to cry over something this little ryt? please help!
sorry if there were any mistakes!
thanks guys!!

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Reply 1
How old are you?
Reply 2
16.
hey

with the whole looks thing, if u really want to change ureself, u will find the courage to ask ure sister for straighteners etc. what are u afraid of if u ask? if u don't like the way u dress or look, can u ask ure sister, or cousins, friends for advice?

bout ure bf. maybe he didn't have enough time to go on the interent, to send u an e-mail, there could be a million reasons why he didn't. don't stress too much. it's only the once so far right?

xxxx
Reply 4
Heya, ummm well I don't get how you can be too shy to ask your own sister for her hair straighteners or to help with your eyebrows :confused: Unless she's some sort of wicked witch, in which case you can buy your own straighteners and either get some tweezers and have a go with your eyebrows yourself using a magazine for reference, or get them done at a salon :smile:
Reply 5
well ya he has done that in the past but thats because there an electricity cut which explained it!
i dono he hasnt read my mail and thats not normal and he always online!! i mean not always but like he will be even if its for something like 5 minutes!

no lol its just feel odd. i mean i think its my brother he bought my courage down, when i try something new he'll be like oookay or make a funny face, even if it looks okay, i mean he'll say oh u look nice at the end but i think im scred of that face or joke he might make
things such as
omg she want to be the beauty queen, i know it doesnt sound really big but its the way he says it

i tryed doing my eyebrow but it got kinda mucked up :redface: and thanks ill try the magazine, the reason i dont go to the salon is because of my sister, i mean she used to work in one
just ignore ure brother, brothers are annoying!

hope ure feeling calmer now!

xxxx
Im sure u look great. I on the other hand get called a "minger" while walking down my street my a group of chav girls. This has happened a few times, and i know im not good looking, ok fair enough.. but not everything has to be about looks! At least youve got a bf, and ur only 16, ur looks will change slightly by the time ur 18.
Reply 8
thanks!! :smile:
i know brothers are annoying!
okay this problem is sounding silly but i dono, i'm confused!
Reply 9
Anonymous
Im sure u look great. I on the other hand get called a "minger" while walking down my street my a group of chav girls. This has happened a few times, and i know im not good looking, ok fair enough.. but not everything has to be about looks! At least youve got a bf, and ur only 16, ur looks will change slightly by the time ur 18.


ya but even for my bf i think he can do better, way better i mean he goes to a private school! he cleaver and i'm probably not in his reach anyway, i dont know y he likes me in the first place.

i'm sure ur great!! i mean people have called me ugly i dont know if it was to get my attention or what.
and true why is everything about looks?
Reply 10
Anonymous

no lol its just feel odd. i mean i think its my brother he bought my courage down, when i try something new he'll be like oookay or make a funny face, even if it looks okay, i mean he'll say oh u look nice at the end but i think im scred of that face or joke he might make
things such as
omg she want to be the beauty queen, i know it doesnt sound really big but its the way he says it

Whilst I completely understand the wish to meet the approval of family members, your brother isn't someone you should need to feel attractive to. And brothers are like that, I promise. My brother has always, always teased me about silly little things about my appearance, but when I make the effort, he's always very complimentary. Chances are, he's just being like any normal brother who teases siblings.

Secondly, you're afraid to ask your own sister to borrow her straighteners or ask her for help? If you don't mind me asking, has something happened between you that would lead you to be afraid? I'm SURE your sister would be more than happy to help you out if you asked.

Try not to compare yourself to your cousins either, you're a different person, embrace your own good features. Chin up, chicken. :smile:
Reply 11
wow thanks for the advice!!
no nothing has happened it just that my shyness has increased over the years, well i now know not to listen to my brother anymore! thanks :smile:

but its very hard i mean there like perfect and i'm probably the only one who osnt in the family children, this is really annoying
Reply 12
I wouldn;t take the chav insults too close to heart - most of the ones I've come across haven't exactly been stunners.
Anonymous

Secondly i have a long distance relationship and i haven’t received a mail from my bf! It’s about 10:25 their time and he should have mailed because he sleeps at 10! I think he might be late but I really doubt it as i normal get one around 12!
please help me!! i mean i almost want to cry now but its silly to cry over something this little ryt? please help!
sorry if there were any mistakes!
thanks guys!!




That isnt a relationship, thats whatever the modern equivilent of a penfriend is. Go out find yourself someone who lives near you, and then they'll make you feel better about yourself as you can actually touch them and hear whatever compliments they may have to give... whilst getting you to know that worrying about the shape of your head is ridiculous.
Reply 14
El Scotto

That isnt a relationship, thats whatever the modern equivilent of a penfriend is. Go out find yourself someone who lives near you, and then they'll make you feel better about yourself as you can actually touch them and hear whatever compliments they may have to give... whilst getting you to know that worrying about the shape of your head is ridiculous.


well thats actually your opinion to weather you want to call it a realtionship or not, but to me he means the world, so i'm not going to just go out and find someone, but thanks for the advice i really appreciate it! :smile:
i know worring about the sahpe is weird but it just brings me down most of them time.
Reply 15
why dnt u go 2 a salon with a friend? somewhere ur sister doesnt go or know of.... or ask a friend for to help with ur problem, friends sisters can be helpful as well... try it out

ur only 16 stop stressin bout ur looks you've got alot of growin 2 do yet, you'll change loads over the years to come

are you asian?? where is ur bf? diff city or country? have u met this guy b4 or did u meet online?

please dnt put urself down i bet ur a great person, jus b urself n people will see ur true inner beauty
Reply 16
hummm thanks!! :smile: i could do with a friend
hummm lol yes i'm asian, howd you gess? well my bf is in different country and no i didnt meet him online, he moved there this summer! :frown: lol
Reply 17
well if his moved its gonna b quite difficult to keep it goin... but if its tru love it shouldnt b 2 hard!

if u eva need a friend to talk 2 when ur feelin down or jus in general u can add me on 2 ur msn my add is [email protected]

n if wasnt online one day dnt worry he mite not b at home mite have gone 2 a party or some family thing, dnt stress to much.
Reply 18
oh okay thanks lol
i'll add you! :smile: i know its going to be hard but its nearly 4 months now, he moved in may, but going cool actually very cool! :smile:
yep i just mailed him saying why he wasnt online so hopefully i should get a reply 2mw, fingers crossed! :smile:
Reply 19
if his got a mobile u cud ask him 2 text u the days he ent gonna b able 2 cum online to stop u worryin