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Reply 1
be a man, do not tart yourself up or get the reputation of being the town's bike, where everyone has an easy ride. and importantly be a man
Reply 2
don't be worried or nethin. its good you have respect for yourself
Reply 3
i was a virgin till i was over 18, i wanted to find the ryt person n am glad i did. just wait, i think its better
Reply 4
Or be a woman... :rolleyes:

Don't do anything with anybody if you're not 100% sure about it.
vincent
be a man, do not tart yourself up or get the reputation of being the town's bike, where everyone has an easy ride. and importantly be a man

Or be a woman even...

Well I'm 18 and a virgin.
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at that age.Do yourself a favour and wait until you meet someone who is worth losing your virginity to.Be 100% sure.Don't just lose it to some loser you randomly met or something.
cherrychocolate
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at that age.Do yourself a favour and wait until you meet someone who is worth losing your virginity to.Be 100% sure.Don't just lose it to some loser you randomly met or something.


agree exactly. :smile:
Reply 8
Ooo, thanks for all of your replys.
But to be honest I sort of want to get the first time out of the way lol, it's not like I really want my first time to be with the one, it's just I don't know anyone that I could see my self with.
I want my first time to be respectable but I don't know.
Maybe I just need to make more of a point of meeting new people.
Reply 9
u shudnt want sex over a relationship or go out to meent ppl with the purpose of having sex wi em if u get me?
Reply 10
i was 17 before i did it. and regardless of who you do it with, it still feels crap.

we always thought it was cool to be a virgin, my friend is still one now, and shes 20 *shrugs*

its only those imature enough that dont accept viginity.
Reply 11
You know, you catch AIDs if you don't lose your virginity before you're 18... seriously though, what the hell are you worrying about? There are loads of people who haven't even kissed people yet in their 20s, it's not like it matters. Look at it this way: when you're 70, it won't make a difference if it's now or when you're 20!
Reply 12
17 is still very young. There will be loads of 17-year-olds who are still virgins.
Reply 13
I was a virgin till I was 18 :smile:
I'm still a virgin. I live with my parents (who never "go away on business") so I don't have anywhere to do it as I don't fancy doing it in a car or closet or anything like that. Even if you did have a long term boyfriend do you have a place to do it?
Sex in a closet? sounds riveting. I know a few 25 year old virgins, and they are not complete mingers, they just havent found the right girl
Reply 16
Virgin. Am I Bovered though? No!
Glamourama
Does that stupid to you's?
It's not that I don't want to, it's just the oppurtunity has come about. I haven't had a long term boyfriend and don't want to go about being easy.
Sometimes I just think grrrr.
I don't really know what i'm asking for, opinions I suppose. Thanks.

FFS just cos you can have sex at 16 doesn't mean you have to. It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 17 and anyone who thinks any less of you for this isn't worth the time of day.
Reply 18
darryl
Virgin. Am I Bovered though? No!


you just aint even bovered, look at your face, do you bovered? cos you aint even bovered tho :biggrin:
Reply 19
Anonymous
I'm still a virgin. I live with my parents (who never "go away on business") so I don't have anywhere to do it as I don't fancy doing it in a car or closet or anything like that. Even if you did have a long term boyfriend do you have a place to do it?


This isn't really on topic, but GOD THIS IS SO ANNOYING. My parents never go away but luckily my boyfriend's family has a house by the sea that they go to fairly often. My Y11 now Y12 brother has been on holiday for a-g-e-s, which has meant that my house is rarely empty...thank God he's gone back to school.

To the OP: don't worry about it or think that it's not normal, loads of people are still virgins at 17. I lost my virginity at 18 but I didn't really think of it as a big thing, not the albatross that people seem to make it out to be. Yeah, it can be frustrating but you just have to...well...make do. Buy a vibrator :wink: