The Student Room Group

Reply 1

its one or the other or neither. would be better at neither then you dont have to choose. find someone else

Reply 2

dh00001
its one or the other or neither. would be better at neither then you dont have to choose. find someone else


Well that's what they're saying. They know they can't have either of them, so they want to know how to get over them. OP, sorry but no real advice apart from mabye spend a little less time around them.

Reply 3

Yeah either just be good friends with both but if you fancy both you can only go out with one of them.

Reply 4

I'm in this exact situation, however, i chose to be with the one i fancied as opposed to the one who i can have a fantastic friendship with. It wasn't a decision i wanted to choose.

Reply 5

Aren't you effectively saying you're going to be single forever? If you can't have both then you don't want either, what's then to stop you from meeting a third girl and not being with her because you still can't have both the first two?

Choose one of them and give it a shot.