getting over a feeling

OP

I just really thought she was the one....she's the first one that really captured my heart......

Reply 3

kaylaj86

do u still see her? thats not guna help you get over her.... try not to see her for a few weeks and concentrate on other things such as your education, work or even find a new hobby and meet some new people

Reply 4

Pick out all the bad points about her and keep them in your head. That will make you get over her.

Reply 5

hixey101

yeah thats a good one actually

Reply 6

Thats what i did about this guy....took about 6 months though.

Reply 7

OP

Yeah im still going to see her. Not by appointment, but just that we will generally see each other and next year especially, as we will live pretty close to each other and that we have many mutual friends.

Bad points...? Thats going to take me ages to think about...

Reply 8

HereFishyFishy

13

It's a tough one.
But all you can do is keep yourself preoccupied and see it through. It's the old cliche, but time is a healer.
It also might be best to keep out of her way for a few weeks. Just until you sort your head out.

Reply 9

If you have anything that reminds you of her like pictures, text messages, bits and bobs...chuck them all away. It will help. You will regret it for a couple of weeks but then you will realise.

Reply 10

OP

shes online now.....iv made the first move to speak. i don't want her to feel like im avoiding her / or her to feel that she doesn't feel comfortable speaking to me....

oh god....text messages.....iv kept most of the ones she sent me.......

delete?

Reply 11

HereFishyFishy

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posh_git

shes online now.....iv made the first move to speak. i don't want her to feel like im avoiding her / or her to feel that she doesn't feel comfortable speaking to me....

oh god....text messages.....iv kept most of the ones she sent me.......

delete?

Well, why did you start speaking to her?? Basically against all the advice you've been given, really.

Yes. Delete. What good will come of hanging onto them?...

Reply 12

Aeris

15

posh_git

I just really thought she was the one....she's the first one that really captured my heart......

#blah#

Nothing solid there...

Reply 13

OP

i dno... omg....confused. will go delete now.

Reply 14

HereFishyFishy

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posh_git

i dno... omg....confused. will go delete now.

Listen, she knows you like her. Talking to her at this point isn't going to benefit either party. Just listen to what I (and others) have said above.

Delete, burn, banish, throw away - all good options in this situation!

Reply 15

Feefifofum

16

Been there before. It'll take time, but if she means a lot to you, then you'll learn to cope with just being friends with her. And you'll find someone new in time, just give yourself a chance.

Reply 16

OP

ok talking to her is kinda helping...its like we were before.

iv deleted all texts though.

Reply 17

Aeris

15

I'm actually glad you're talking to her. It wont do any good to just erase her or try to ignore her. I just hope you understand there are other girls out there who are great to know.

Reply 18