Good first dates...?

Right i am 17 and i am sure the answer changes with so i thought that should be known.

What is a good thing to do with a girl for a first/early date cos i at my age it apparently always comes across as "coming on too strong" if you like take her out to like a nice resteraunt or something but other things seem a bit cheap or cheesy so i am stuck for original ideas just at the moment.

Any comments, particularly from similarly aged girls would be much appreciated. thanks

Reply 1

Chewwy

17

depends if it's day or night. you can get away with a nice meal in the day, since it's generally not as formal. personally, my friend who's a girl seems to like walking a lot, so things like going to parks, feeding ducks, they're good. oh yeah, she also has some odd phobia of eating in front of me, so meals aren't good for us :smile:

. if your girlfriend however likes getting drunk and fighting people, a park maybe isn't such a good idea.

Reply 2

General Mullet

I hate the concept of 'dates' I just like to walk about, grab some coffee, show her some cool stuff and let her talk about herself. Cinema dates, restaurant dates etc in my opinion are lame and ultimately a waste of my/her money.

Reply 3

filastini

14

Take a walk to the park so you can chat, have a coffee, perhaps a movie if she wants and some lunch. Nothing too extreme that's all.

Reply 4

Chewwy

17

ah yes, i forgot about the ultimate best first-date ever. go to supermarket. buy ice cream and big wooden spoons. eat in park. hurrah.

she's not my girlfriend though.

Reply 5

Dramatic Star

2

Never go to the cinema. It is insociable & you won't have as much of a chance to get to know her. Instead go bowling, shopping or something like that and then go somewhere like Pizza Hut, it's still a meal but isn't too posh & it will give you a chance to talk.

Reply 6

filastini

14

There's so many cool things you can do on a first date:

London Eye #hippie#
Park
Ice cream
Bowling
River [not to swim :hmmm:

]
Playstation 2

Last one was a joke I swear

Reply 7

filastini

14

Dramatic Star

Never go to the cinema. It is insociable & you won't have as much of a chance to get to know her. Instead go bowling, shopping or something like that and then go somewhere like Pizza Hut, it's still a meal but isn't too posh & it will give you a chance to talk.

Only go to a movie if you wanna feela feeli

;/

Reply 8

Dramatic Star

2

justfarhan

Only go to a movie if you wanna feela feeli

;/

I don't suggest doing that on a first date..... :biggrin:

Reply 9

WaW™

3

justfarhan

Take a walk to the park so you can chat, have a coffee, perhaps a movie if she wants and some lunch. Nothing too extreme that's all.

Then she may think you did not put any effort into it! :p:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Quote:
Then she may think you did not put any effort into it!

Yeah i think that about a whole walk in the park thing. i ahve and am willing to spend planty of cash if necessary btw :biggrin:

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Weird and Wonderful

Then she may think you did not put any effort into it! :p:

Lol she won't, it's perfectly fine. And if you do anything extreme/over the top then she'll probably freak out.

Reply 13

filastini

14

Dramatic Star

I don't suggest doing that on a first date..... :biggrin:

;no;

Reply 14

WaW™

3

justfarhan

Lol she won't, it's perfectly fine. And if you do anything extreme/over the top then she'll probably freak out.

Yeah. Better be under than over extreme!

Boooo to cinema though! an what do you mean Touchy feely! :eek:

no wait that didn't do it :eek4:

Reply 15

Eddy123

Window shopping. Cheap, easy and lots to talk about.

Reply 16

filastini

14

Weird and Wonderful

Yeah. Better be under than over extreme!

Boooo to cinema though! an what do you mean Touchy feely! :eek:

no wait that didn't do it :eek4:

If you both genuinly want to watch a particular movie though then it's okay cos you'd have alot of interest in it and will talk about it alot, whereas if it was just a normal movie, you probably wouldn't be talking much.

Feely = oh n0es ;no;

Reply 17

**noooni**

3

where do you live?
If you live in london, go for a walk during the day to some touristy places, maybe an art gallery, or lunch.

Then go london eye after 6ish....you cant beat that :biggrin:

Infact i would be happy with just the london eye...

Reply 18

filastini

14

I suggest the London Eye first, I win #hippie#

Reply 19

dani_88

14

Erm... i've been taken ice skating on a first date before.. The most unusual one was to the driving range! Actually turned out to be loads of fun! :biggrin:

Always interesting to do something different i reckon..

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