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Asking out girl with boyfriend

Anonymous #1

I met a girl recently and get on pretty well with her but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. :mad:

I don't know the bf so is there anything wrong with asking her out?

yes there is.

Yes.

Nope.

Course there is!

If she knows that you know she has a boyfriend then I doubt she'll be too happy with you either.

not really

If I really liked her it wouldn't stop me.

Reply 7

Pezking

1

Well suppose you do, and she agrees whats there to stop her doing exactly the same to you when someone else comes along?

Reply 8

Nick R

10

I understand your dilemma.

You cant ask her out. You can get close to her however. If the relationship ends you'll be there.

Reply 9

Tyler Durden

17

Well, if she's faithful she'll say no.

If she's unfaithful do you wanna be with her?

Reply 10

Nick R

10

Pezking

Well suppose you do, and she agrees whats there to stop her doing exactly the same to you when someone else comes along?

I know a couple. The girl left her ex for this guy.

Now me and the girl are really good mates, but her current boyfriend is madly jealous (over nothing) but its understandable because he's seen his gf leave someone before and is worried itll happen to him.

Reply 11

Mangaroo

12

General Mullet

If I really liked her it wouldn't stop me.

ditto

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for the responses. I can see how asking out a girl with a bf may make me seem like a jerk but is it not best to be honest with her and let her make her mind up?

Reply 13

Nick R

10

No. Its putting her in an unfair position. And you wouldnt like to be that guy either.

Reply 14

Mangaroo

12

tbh if there wasnt some signs you got off her that she likes you in the same way, and unless u had a really good connection with her, then i wouldnt bother.

how old are you?

if someone asked out my girlfriend id put mustard gas in their car's AC.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

OP

I'm 21 mate

What I'm saying is that it seems a bit dishonest to just carry on pretending to be her friend, maybe meeting the bf and pretending to like him.

With regards to signs etc there have been certain indications that make me think there's at least a decent chance of her saying yes.

Reply 18

El Scotto

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Anonymous

I met a girl recently and get on pretty well with her but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. :mad:

I don't know the bf so is there anything wrong with asking her out?

I dont think theres any harm. It would only create positive outcomes.

I tend to look at things this way.

IF: Their relationship is happy and strong enough, you're asking her out isnt going to do any difference what so ever... she'll feel flattered and it'll make their relationship that little bit stronger.

IF: she says yes to you, the relationship that she did have, obviously wasnt up to much in the first place... and its much better for her and her (what would be ex)boyfriend to find out then, rather than wasting lots more time together.

Reply 19

Biffy Clyro

12

How serious is her current boyfriend?

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