The waiting game (guys only)

How long is appropriate.
How long before you lose interest?

Personally I dont mind a girl not giving me the box too quickly
I like a challenge.
for me it also shows that she values her vagina and I can eventually see her more than just a piece of skirt.I can see her as a girlfriend, a lover and a friend and all that lovey dovey lark


For me two to about four months i can live with
After that I will lose interest.Not saying it takes me that long but im speaking solely on basis of relationships,marriage etc.

So how long for you guise

I shouldn't have come here. It said guys only. I saw it said guys only. I looked anyway......and now.............I just......wow.

Anyone who can't wait a few months isn't worth it imo.

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You use some peculiar expressions.

Anyone who can't wait a few months isn't worth it imo.

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You use some peculiar expressions.

Anyone who doesn't want it on the first night is a timewaster.

If you're not going to put out, at least tell me before 9pm so I can organise meeting up with a more interesting girl.

i agree.
Within reason of course.
Obviously the girl has to do her part by being a prestige piece of beauty.

Like a true gent

Well, absolutely. Obvious I would also be courteous to return the favour, if you turned up and were utterly hanging, I would be kind enough to order you an early taxi.

"What shall we order?"

"Well I'm having a steak, and you're having a takeaway pizza on the way home."

So you meet up with a girl and before you even get to know her personality or anything, the first thing you'd want to know is if she'd sleep with you on the first date? That's a tad desperate don't you think?

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Not really, no.

What's the point in finding out if she has a great personality if she's not really attracted to you? No point at all.

On the other hand, what's the point in finding out if she's attracted to you before finding out what her personality is like? Well, you get some decent sex while you find out.

So clearly the logical order is that sex comes first, then get to know each other.

TBH, very few girls in real life are not interested after a few drinks so this is rather a moot point. On TSR there is a more old-fashioned vibe; all this "wait until the 3rd date nonsense" that is straight out of the 1950s.

Just because she's delaying sex doesn't mean she's not attracted to you, not at all.

The truth of the matter is that many guys aren't looking for relationships and just want a 'pump and dump' with girls and they pretend that you're their world or that they'd wait forever for you just to make you weak at the knees and give into their advances. After sex, you'd be lucky if they even returned your calls.

This phenomenon is a lot more common than you think so this obviously makes some girls conscious and delay the sex for a bit to see if he's for real. That's the way I see it, at least for non religious types.

If a guy really cared about you anyway, a few months without sex with you wouldn't faze him.

Like a true gent



I thought that was the default job assigned to women at all times. To stand there and look pretty right?

What is the man's part in all this?

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