Should I tell him?

Ok here's the background:

I've been e-mailing this guy for several months- we know each other from a group we both attend and see each other about once a week at it.

Just recently our e-mails have been more...revealing and we've written about each other, and the age gap that exists between us.

Yesterday we spent the day together with the rest of the group, but managed to find a few moments alone where we hugged...

ok now is my dilemma- we're dealing with the age thing- thats not the issue. The thing is- I'm finding it a bit weird because we did so much 'flirting by e-mail' that its odd doing it face-to-face. My major problem is that he wanted to kiss me (he asked- aww) and I said wait... what I didn't tell him is that I've never kissed anyone in my life... I won't be seeing him for at least a few days- probably a week: but we will be in e-mail/text contact; do you think I should tell him that I've 'never been kissed'?

Reply 1

squigaletta

it really does depend on you and him, if you feel its something you want to share with him then tell him, if youd rather he didnt know, or even arent that fussed by it then you shouldn't feel obliged to tell him at all, im sure he wouldnt expect you to

Reply 2

username47781

It's best to be honest, what is the age gap anyway?

Reply 3

notebook

Best to tell him?

Reply 4

notebook

* sorry- hadn't finished.

Couldn't this make things harder? (I'm not very good on these questions- just interested as I'm in a similar dilemma; but not quite so complex!)