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Hurrrahhh!! Rid of the pervy driving instructor!!

Just wanted to let ppl know and especially ppl whove had the same problem to not be scared to get rid of a driving instructor!

Basically, it started off him telling me i was gorgeous and stuff about my eyes... i was like ok - maybe this is a passing comment, so i let it slide
then a few more lessons, and he kept on saying things similarly - then he started to touch my leg/arm and kiss my arm/hand totally unprovoked - i told him to stop, he said ok then the next week back to normal;
later on he started to tell me that he had 'wanked' after every lesson and that did that several times during a week - to which i profusely objected again
the final straw came when last week he tried to put his hand down my top - i was so outraged, i got out the car and started walking home, without door key/phone/money - took me 3 hours but ok... and now im reporting him to the DSA

and it all got to this point coz i was stupid and too embarrassed to tell my parents, which i know now i shouldnt have been - so if anyones in a similar situation, please dont stay with them and let them think what theyre doing is ok coz its obv not, i just cant believe i was so slow to act on it...


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Reply 1
oh if i could be bothered to type it all...id have many stories for you..
well done OP!
if i knew who you were i'd rep you.
xx
Reply 3
tbh id contact the police too
Good on you OP.
well done OP!! Congrats for getting rid of the perv! im changing instructors, not cos hes a perv, but cos he was arrogant and wouldnt let me learn in my own way when it was obvius his style of teaching didnt suit me, plus all the negative comments. I failed my test cos of him, and i wont let it happen again!

Congrats again!
Well i'm going to sleep soundly tonight knowing that the OP managed to change driving instructors!
Thats quite serious. Its worth telling the police and DSA because even though on its own it might not do anything since if he denies it then theres no proof that your telling the truth, however if he did it to you he my have done it in the past to others and so other girls may have also reported him and then there will be evidence to take away his liscence and prosecute him.
Reply 8
Anonymous
Just wanted to let ppl know and especially ppl whove had the same problem to not be scared to get rid of a driving instructor!

Basically, it started off him telling me i was gorgeous and stuff about my eyes... i was like ok - maybe this is a passing comment, so i let it slide
then a few more lessons, and he kept on saying things similarly - then he started to touch my leg/arm and kiss my arm/hand totally unprovoked - i told him to stop, he said ok then the next week back to normal;
later on he started to tell me that he had 'wanked' after every lesson and that did that several times during a week - to which i profusely objected again
the final straw came when last week he tried to put his hand down my top - i was so outraged, i got out the car and started walking home, without door key/phone/money - took me 3 hours but ok... and now im reporting him to the DSA

and it all got to this point coz i was stupid and too embarrassed to tell my parents, which i know now i shouldnt have been - so if anyones in a similar situation, please dont stay with them and let them think what theyre doing is ok coz its obv not, i just cant believe i was so slow to act on it...


xx


So let me get this straight, you continued the lessons regardless of him touching you? You left your key, phone and money behind and this didn't go unnoticed by your parents or friends? You refrained from informing your parents of this last unprecedented advance (any normal person would report it immediately)? It took you 3 hours to walk home? Must have gone pretty far out.
NViasko
So let me get this straight, you continued the lessons regardless of him touching you? You left your key, phone and money behind and this didn't go unnoticed by your parents or friends? You refrained from informing your parents of this last unprecedented advance (any normal person would report it immediately)? It took you 3 hours to walk home? Must have gone pretty far out.


Its not that easy to tell your parents about something like that because its embarsing, how ever i would have thought most people would make up some excuse to their parents of why they want to change driving instructers.
asianangel86
well done OP!
if i knew who you were i'd rep you.
xx



it was me!
Reply 11
Shreerac1
it was me!


you lie!
Reply 12
Was he fat and old?
Reply 13
he was short, scottish and had a reeeally nasty face... lol
martl1
he was short, scottish and had a reeeally nasty face... lol

im gona meet my new one on monday aaarrrrgghhh shes a woman though, so no being touched up for me :p: unless shes gay that is!
Reply 15
martl1
he was short, scottish and had a reeeally nasty face... lol


My driving instructor is short, English and has a "reeeally nasty face". Alas, he doesn't imply that I'm beautiful though. :frown:
foxo
My driving instructor is short, English and has a "reeeally nasty face". Alas, he doesn't imply that I'm beautiful though. :frown:

can men be beautiful??handsome yes, but beautiful?
did u get ur things back lol
Tell the Police. He could have been pervy outside of driving lessons to other people there'll be one less perv on the streets won't do any harm :biggrin:
Reply 19
pervs like him deserved a sap in the face before you left and then told him to the police and get him locked up.... or fined at least