I mean I started fapping to her and a pornstar who resembles her.
I don't see what the big deal is. I mean, if you can say someone is attractive, what you're really saying is" I want to do unspeakable things to them, I want to cum in every hole on their body, I want to **** them all over the place". There's no difference in my mind, so why if you can recognise that someone is sexy would you then have any hang-ups about jerking off to them? In your mind / in principle you already have anyway.
I don't see what the big deal is. I mean, if you can say someone is attractive, what you're really saying is" I want to do unspeakable things to them, I want to cum in every hole on their body, I want to **** them all over the place". There's no difference in my mind, so why if you can recognise that someone is sexy would you then have any hang-ups about jerking off to them? In your mind / in principle you already have anyway.
True that.
I just feel nervous when I am around them though. But it's more physical attraction and wanting to be naughty with them, than being in a full relationship.
I just feel nervous when I am around them though. But it's more physical attraction and wanting to be naughty with them, than being in a full relationship.
lol, yeah, I would say that secretly fantasising about being in a full-blown relationship with someone who has no idea is infinitely more creepy than knocking out a quick **** while thinking about what they look like. No reason to be nervous though, they'll never know unless you either outright tell them or start acting all stalkerish around them, and I bet your male friends are doing exactly the same thing too.
I think you fancy but you haven't quite realised the concept well yet. Stop contemplating the matter, you'll only go insane. Oh, what course and how's her personality like? If you don't mind me asking.
I think you fancy but you haven't quite realised the concept well yet. Stop contemplating the matter, you'll only go insane. Oh, what course and how's her personality like? If you don't mind me asking.
Her personality is very forward. I find that HOT. She is also flirty in terms of touching, sometimes she puts her feet on my lap, which I find makes me crave a footjob from her.
I keep fapping to her picture and a pornstar who looks similar to her giving me a blowjob..
I consider that to be normal, I know a couple of friends have thought of me while masturbating before and that doesn't bother me.
Did they tell you? So is it okay to tell other girls you think of them ... erm.. positively shall we say? Haha, I ask because, I imagine my gf and her hot bestie together...sometimes.
Thing is she is also my friend.. I'm not sure about ruining that.. she may have a boyfriend, she has never explicitly told me that, I have a feeling that she does.
Also, whilst I find her forward personality hot as hell, I'm not sure about her as a good girlfriend.
I'm not sure why I masturbate to her.. do I fancy her?
Advice?
I've heard guys say that they masturbate to girls they know because there's a closeness there, ie they don't have a chance with a pornstar but they COULD have a chance with a girl they know irl?
I've heard guys say that they masturbate to girls they know because there's a closeness there, ie they don't have a chance with a pornstar but they COULD have a chance with a girl they know irl?
Fair point. Occasionally we do. And I must admit, occasionally girls I know including the hot girl at the coffee shop or a female friend have entered a fantasy. Nothing to be embarassed about. It's fantasy.