Does anyone masturbate to their female friends?

Yeah, sometimes. I'm assuming this is what people did before the era of internet pr0n.

Yeah, all the time.

When I see my female friend.. I keep looking at her mouth and imagine her giving me a blowjob!

Is this normal?

Yeah, sometimes. I'm assuming this is what people did before the era of internet pr0n.

Cool. Does anyone else fap to their picture and porn at the same time pretending it's them?

I don't see what the big deal is. I mean, if you can say someone is attractive, what you're really saying is" I want to do unspeakable things to them, I want to cum in every hole on their body, I want to **** them all over the place". There's no difference in my mind, so why if you can recognise that someone is sexy would you then have any hang-ups about jerking off to them? In your mind / in principle you already have anyway.

I think you fancy but you haven't quite realised the concept well yet.
Stop contemplating the matter, you'll only go insane.
Oh, what course and how's her personality like?
If you don't mind me asking.

I consider that to be normal, I know a couple of friends have thought of me while masturbating before and that doesn't bother me.

I find it truly weird. I've never met or heard of a guy actually masturbating of their female friends.

I've heard guys say that they masturbate to girls they know because there's a closeness there, ie they don't have a chance with a pornstar but they COULD have a chance with a girl they know irl?

Yeah I see your point. Thing is one of my friends I love her forwardness. She's cute and exudes power and I have thought about her banging me all night twice. The other friend has rubbed her feet on me and also I can't stop looking at her mouth. I constantly think about her giving me a blowjob. What's with that?! Is this all right?



One is forward and driven. She does seem like she gets with people who are doing well. I am currently doing very well on the course and I think she finds that hot. She has always spoken to me though, it's just now she does a little more. The other girl is more loyal in the sense of always talking, but she seems more of a user. She blocks me sometimes from talking to other girls. And she has less attention. Sometimes I feel she's flirting and other days, not.



Yeah I mean I have thought about these two (separately) often. Especially the blowjob one.. I mean I have masturbated to her picture and a pornstar making moaning noises several times.



I don't normally do it. Though these two I wouldn't call close friends as such.



Haha, I mean I find both attractive, but don't envisage a relationship with both of them. They are both sort of users, in that they use people sometimes, which is why I have kept my distance. But the forward one I have spent more time with on the course recently and more exposure has me getting more attracted to her. The other girl is someone I met in halls and I find her fun. Maybe it's because she seems to constantly be touchy which I find arouses me, and also one day she sort of took a while with this lollipop. I cannot get her giving me a blowjob out of my head. Whenever I see her, I can't help look at her mouth!

Is this all right?!

While fantasies are intrinsically harmless, and can help to manage fixations which might otherwise disrupt normal social functioning, the increasingly prurient manner in which you apparently choose to exorcise your preoccupation with this girl suggests that your 'friendship' may not be as genuine as she thinks it is, and moreover that your own perception of her may become distorted as a result of this pervasive (and as yet, unrequited) lust.

So yes: 'friends-with-benefits' is probably a subject best broached sooner rather than later.

If me or my friends said they masturbate over any female members in our social group that we are close to, they would feel a bit disgusted. You must be really nice in real life.

Didn't you feel weird knowing it?

While fantasies are intrinsically harmless, and can help to manage fixations which might otherwise disrupt normal social functioning, the increasingly prurient manner in which you apparently choose to exorcise your preoccupation with this girl suggests that your 'friendship' may not be as genuine as she thinks it is, and moreover that your own perception of her may become distorted as a result of this pervasive (and as yet, unrequited) lust.

So yes: 'friends-with-benefits' is probably a subject best broached sooner rather than later.

I think it's more common than some people might think, different to fapping over a pornstar/celebrity for example as you have more of a connection with the girl. Obviously don't tell them about it though.

Firstly it's all right. It's normal and it's fantasy. It's healthy.

1. With the first girl, sounds like you like her because she has a dominant personality and has taken a liking to you. You clearly judge people well as you have assessed both and deemed them users, so you are very selective when it comes to being friendly with people. You have to decide whether it is genuine interest you have in pursuing a girlfriend relationship with this girl or whether you want to get with her and be friends with benefits.

2. This girl who is actually teasing you with touching. She could be interested in you, or interested in getting physical. However her attention span and varied moods make me lean more toward the conclusion that she is a narcissist. She likes control, she wants you as a backup and prevents you from meeting others. Definitely no to girlfriend. Don't let her stop you from pursuing other women. As for her mouth, well she may have teased you to get you fixed on her. It appears to be working.

Fap to number 2. If she offers it, then by all means, enjoy her oral skills!!
Pursue number 1 I reckon.

If you just fantasise about them, that's perfectly normal. Several of my female friends have asked us whether we fap to them. Some seem flattered!

Thing is she did start this more intimate contact... putting her feet and rubbing them on my crotch. Sucking on her finger at breakfast. Hugging me and pushing her breasts upward when greeting me. I just keep imagining her mouth and her sucking me off.



I haven't told her I have fantasised about her, but am wondering whether she intended this. Is she trying to seduce me? Thing is I have mentioned a girl on her course that I like and wonder whether she is trying to block me?



I find her hot, but not girlfriend material. I don't know, I don't want her to be my first. I would bang her, but wouldn't want it as my first.



Okay, I have found a pornstar who looks similar to her and have fapped to that and my female friend's picture at the same time. Trying to get rid of this energy.

This is fine. Normal fantasy.

Pretty sure some girls like it when they know a guy is getting off to them.

No harm in doing so, what they don't know can't harm them.

I do it all the time.

I find it weird. No one I know does it, we talk frankly so I'm pretty sure I would know if they did.