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Arghgghg!

Rant.

Quick details. I am 19, she is 18. We've been going out 1 year und 2 months.

My girlfriend seems to be constantly letting me down lately, and I seriously can't take anymore of it, especially after today.

Yesterday she tried tricking me into eating food I hate (she tried making me believe the mushrooms in the sauce were pieces of tomato... I hate mushrooms). Now yeah whatever nothing major but, I asked her why she thought i'd fall for that and her reply was simply "because you're an idiot". How ****ing loving can she be? The whole idiot thing annoyed me quite a bit though tbh... Later in the night I walked her to her friends house in an area I didnt know. I asked for directios to get to where I had to go and she gave me wrong ones - So I ended up missing a film at the cinema I was meant to see with a friend. She said she felt really bad about the day and said sorry blah blah and that she would make it up to me today by coming over in the evening (5ish) and staying round!

and here we are today.

I'm meant to be entering a pretty major film competition (deadline's tomorrow). Last week I filmed with her and a friend (very short 15 second film - so hardly any effort). Few days ago I realised it wasnt what i wanted so had to reshoot. I told her about it and she said she'd do it. We ended up not doing it yesterday and I was really relying on her to help me today. So at 2pm I get a text saying she'll be round at 7. 2 hours later than she said yesterday even though she knew I was desperate to film :/ So sun was going down and I called her to see where she was... at home. I told her how much I was relying on her and all i got in return was "well you shouldnt be ****ing relying on me, I've already filmed it with you once". This is coming from someone that last night was really sorry and said theyd make it up to me blah blah blah. Now it's half 7 and shes still not here. Dont quite see the point in her coming over anymore considering she'll be leaving first thing when she wakes up anyway... But ****ing hell after over a year, she still thinks its ok to treat me like crap. I'm just so annoyed over the filming thing because she knew how important it was to me and didnt even give a crap. Arghhh!

So yeah, last time i'm relying on her. I sense a break-up tonight tbh, am i right?

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Reply 1
am i right?


I think you are.
Reply 2
I would've already dumped her, with an attitude like that.
Reply 3
Anonymous


So yeah, last time i'm relying on her. I sense a break-up tonight tbh, am i right?




get rid.
Reply 4
OMG that seems really cruel. Are you sure she knows she's supposed to be your girlfriend?
Reply 5
Just to continue with the theme, my ex tricked me into eating meat feast pizza when I'm vegetarian!
Reply 6
Bubblebee
Just to continue with the theme, my ex tricked me into eating meat feast pizza when I'm vegetarian!

I'm a veggie too, and if someone did that to me I would punch them, and I'm not even remotely joking. That would definitely be the end of the relationship for me.
Reply 7
She doesn't sound very sensitive. Sit down and have a very big talk at the least. A relationship is meant to be fulfilling and if it isn't, then yes, have a long look at it.
keep the camera rolling whilst you "talk" - kill two birds with one stone, so to speak...
Reply 9
gosh hence he's ur ex right?

i dont see why girls and boys cant be decent to their other halves. the whole point of entering a relationship is cos u rele like that person. why do people therefore take others for granted and show them no respect. i always aim to be a good gf, but its sthg that should come naturally. i just couldnt see myself acting how ur gf does. she should know by now the importance of your work and that you should be able to lean and rely on her.

if she really wont change u should get out
Mr.God
I'm a veggie too, and if someone did that to me I would punch them, and I'm not even remotely joking. That would definitely be the end of the relationship for me.

It was horrible but I was too ill to care at the time.... argh!

to the op... just get rid, and quickly!
Bubblebee
Just to continue with the theme, my ex tricked me into eating meat feast pizza when I'm vegetarian!



some of your teeth arn't veggy though... So technically what he was doing wasnt really that wrong : )
Reply 12
El Scotto

some of your teeth arn't veggy though... So technically what he was doing wasnt really that wrong : )

I bet you wouldn't be saying that if someone had fed you human flesh.
Champagne-Dahling
keep the camera rolling whilst you "talk" - kill two birds with one stone, so to speak...



Then he could Youtube it and make it the start of a great new website...

People dumped on film! - I think that would be great.

Almost as good as the American TV Show where they hired private detectives to spy on their partners then in the end got the suspicious partner to come and catch out the cheating partner on camera...

CHEATERS!!! - :smile: remembered what it was called as I was typing!
Anonymous
But ****ing hell after over a year, she still thinks its ok to treat me like crap.


See this could be the problem. No she shouldnt be treating you like crap after a year and a half, but she shouldnt have been treating you like crap on day one either.

Break up with her.
Mr.God
I bet you wouldn't be saying that if someone had fed you human flesh.



If worral-thompson or Ramsey wanted to serve me Human meat, with a nice sauce and decorated all nicely on a plate. I wouldnt be turning it down.

It would be food cooked by the hand of Worral or Ramsy!
Champagne-Dahling
keep the camera rolling whilst you "talk" - kill two birds with one stone, so to speak...


But theres only 1 bird that needs killing :toofunny:
Reply 17
She's still not here. Very tempted to make use of my camcorder though. I'll consider any ideas apart from the obvious violent or sexual ones...
Anonymous
She's still not here. Very tempted to make use of my camcorder though. I'll consider any ideas apart from the obvious violent or sexual ones...



You could do a short trendy documentary short.

Keep it running whilst you open the door to her, then she'll wonder why its running.... so say she'll know in a minute as you guide her to where-ever you're going to take her to do the chucking. which'll all lead to the suspence.

Then Chuck her on film for the reasons given in this thread.

then upload. Great footage... you could start a trend.

you could even make money through advertising of people coming to.

www.dumpedonfilm.com - :biggrin:

Also, when she tells her mates that you've chucked her and call you a bastard,
if she says - He dumped me on film, her friends will laugh.. instead of calling you a bastard!
El Scotto

You could do a short trendy documentary short.

Keep it running whilst you open the door to her, then she'll wonder why its running.... so say she'll know in a minute as you guide her to where-ever you're going to take her to do the chucking. which'll all lead to the suspence.

Then Chuck her on film for the reasons given in this thread.

then upload. Great footage... you could start a trend.

you could even make money through advertising of people coming to.

www.dumpedonfilm.com - :biggrin:

Also, when she tells her mates that you've chucked her and call you a bastard,
if she says - He dumped me on film, her friends will laugh.. instead of calling you a bastard!


Make sure you get her to say "iv been dumped on film, please visist www.dumpedonfilm.com for more videos."