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Showing a guy you like him

OK, so there's this guy I like and I found out that he has liked me for over a year and basically has a huge crush on me. Now I have found this out, I have noticed how much he looks at me in lectures and at lunch. I'm really flattered and I have actually liked him for a while too!

I was just wondering if you guys had any tips for letting him know that I like him without actually telling him (i.e. body language across the room and shizz!) I know it sounds kind of weird (not just telling him directly) but i wanna keep the whole air of mystery thing going lol! Like the whole 'treat em mean keep em keen thing' cos that must have worked up until now! :smile:
So basically I just want to know what guys find attractive when looking at a girl from a distance, etc

Cheers :suith: xxxx:suith:

:tsr2:

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Reply 1

Ask him for a drink and talk about it?

Reply 2

Sorry I'm not a guy. Staring seems to do the trick a lot of the time though. If you feel flirty then smile and look away... it's supposed to work.

Reply 3

Show him your breasts and shout 'take me you bad bad man'

Reply 4

Show him your breasts and shout 'take me you bad bad man'

Reply 5

Have you considered giving him positive rep?

Reply 6

kacas
Show him your breasts and shout 'take me you bad bad man'


lol believe me, i feel like doing this sometimes, he's so cute! lol! xx

Reply 7

Anonymous
OK, so there's this guy I like and I found out that he has liked me for over a year and basically has a huge crush on me. Now I have found this out, I have noticed how much he looks at me in lectures and at lunch. I'm really flattered and I have actually liked him for a while too!

I was just wondering if you guys had any tips for letting him know that I like him without actually telling him (i.e. body language across the room and shizz!) I know it sounds kind of weird (not just telling him directly) but i wanna keep the whole air of mystery thing going lol! Like the whole 'treat em mean keep em keen thing' cos that must have worked up until now! :smile:
So basically I just want to know what guys find attractive when looking at a girl from a distance, etc

Cheers :suith: xxxx:suith:

:tsr2:

Yeah, that whole air of mystery thing is a bit overrated.

He likes you. You like him. You are in the unique position of knowing this. Ask him out - he will like that.

I doubt you'll be loving the air of mystery so much when some other girl goes up to him wanting to get it on and he succumbs after giving up all hope of getting with you. :p:

Reply 8

Mr.God
Have you considered giving him positive rep?


hee hee, if he was on TSR, I'd rep him up real good x

Reply 9

Tell him outright. Many men don't like being toyed with. I'm sure he doesn't like you because you treat him mean.

Reply 10

Look him in the eyes, lick your lips.

That should do it.

Reply 11

Clarence
Look him in the eyes, lick your nips.

That should do it.

Fixed. :smile:

Reply 12

Nice edit.

Reply 13

The lip licking is a good one. You could also try winking at him, I know I'd go nuts for that.

Reply 14

The best thing to do is be yourself and be friendly, most couples start off as friends so get to know him first to make sure you would like to go out with him.

Taking some tips Anthony? Lol.

Reply 15

It doesn't sound like Anthony to me.

Reply 16

Im a bloke, and i tell you now, flirting is good but tbh, its much nicer to be asked out by a girl.

Go up to him, and like every boy has asked you out, ask him out. Oh baby..

Reply 17

matt@internet
It doesn't sound like Anthony to me.


I was joking! Just incase he read this thread!

Reply 18

Anonymous
OK, so there's this guy I like and I found out that he has liked me for over a year and basically has a huge crush on me. Now I have found this out, I have noticed how much he looks at me in lectures and at lunch. I'm really flattered and I have actually liked him for a while too!

I was just wondering if you guys had any tips for letting him know that I like him without actually telling him (i.e. body language across the room and shizz!) I know it sounds kind of weird (not just telling him directly) but i wanna keep the whole air of mystery thing going lol! Like the whole 'treat em mean keep em keen thing' cos that must have worked up until now! :smile:
So basically I just want to know what guys find attractive when looking at a girl from a distance, etc

Cheers :suith: xxxx:suith:

:tsr2:
is it me?

Reply 19

Talk about blowing your own horn.