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more 'boy' troubles

so, basically.

i go to college, and have done for the past year or so, just started a new term. and last year i started to like this boy. (we're both 17 btw) and i sometimes get the impression that he likes me too, and sometimes i think im just wanting him to like me back, because i like him. if you understand. when we're in lessons, he always sits next to me, and leans on my chair, and strokes my hair and/or face. he always laughs and smiles at me. and i don't smoke, but everytime he wants to go for a cigarette, he always asks me to go and join him outside. quite recently, he split up with his girlfriend, and we became really close, as i helped him through it. and he was saying things like "if it wasn't for you i'd be constantly moping around" and things like that. we don't talk on msn alot. but he always leaves me two or three kisses when he goes brb, and he calls me hunni alot of the time. he then said that he'd take me out for a coffee, but we never confirmed a date or anthing. we just started college again last week. the first day i went in, he noticed that i'd changed my hair, and nobody else did. and i also remember that he can remember exactly what i wore on the first day of college, last year. and even i couldn't remember myself. a few days ago, we had a samba class, and next to me there was a spare space, and he came over and stood next to me, and he kept poking me with the drum stick etc. and he keeps complimenting me on how nice, and good my voice is etc. and he just looks at me and smiles for no reason.

im not sure if he likes me as a friend, or something more.
help :confused:
Reply 1
Sounds like he likes you, but be careful about going out with someone who your that close with, it could ruin the friendship.
Reply 2
I asked him. He likes you.
Maybe you should get to know him a bit more, maybe go out somewhere even if it's just to the town.
Reply 4
a few people have told me he might just want me for sex. it's confusing. especially considering i like him alot.

but i guess i should get to know him better. we've known each other for over a year, and we've been close for about 5-6 months.
Reply 5
If he's that good a friend, he won't be putting all that effort in just for sex. You don't have one-night stands with your closest friends unless you have no conscience.