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Male friend thinks I want him?
I've been friends with a guy for 10 months now. He's my best friend, and I love him to pieces (just as a friend).
When we hang out, we have so much to chat about, we agree on almost everything, and he's just amazing to be around.
The problem is that I feel uncomfortable around him sometimes.
I thought he was so incredibly hot when I first met him, and stuff happened between us (just physical, not romantic) but then it just didn't happen again.
My feelings for him have been very on/off (mainly because I tried to convince myself I wasn't attracted to him) and about a month ago I plucked up the courage to let him know how I feel. I found out (though not directly...it's complicated, but he confirmed that this was true) that he used to like me "like that" but not any more. I was a bit upset but got over it.
So, on to the current situation. I think he's hot, but have accepted nothing's going to happen, and am fine just being friends with him. I really like hanging out with him, but now because of what happened, I find it hard to suggest hanging out on our own.
I have such a good time with him when no-one else is around, but I feel like he's gonna think I'm coming on to him if I keep trying to get him on his own.
Am I just being paranoid or what?
When we hang out, we have so much to chat about, we agree on almost everything, and he's just amazing to be around.
The problem is that I feel uncomfortable around him sometimes.
I thought he was so incredibly hot when I first met him, and stuff happened between us (just physical, not romantic) but then it just didn't happen again.
My feelings for him have been very on/off (mainly because I tried to convince myself I wasn't attracted to him) and about a month ago I plucked up the courage to let him know how I feel. I found out (though not directly...it's complicated, but he confirmed that this was true) that he used to like me "like that" but not any more. I was a bit upset but got over it.
So, on to the current situation. I think he's hot, but have accepted nothing's going to happen, and am fine just being friends with him. I really like hanging out with him, but now because of what happened, I find it hard to suggest hanging out on our own.
I have such a good time with him when no-one else is around, but I feel like he's gonna think I'm coming on to him if I keep trying to get him on his own.
Am I just being paranoid or what?
Reply 1
Well maybe you two should actually talk and find out where you both stand, he may have feelings for you as well.
You're in a similar situation to the way one of my friends feels about me, the difference being I never reciprocated her feelings.
I wouldn't worry about it. I never think she's coming onto me when she tries to get us alone together, I know it's purely a matter of her enjoying my company, despite knowing the feelings she had (and I think still has, to a degree) for me, I don't see why this guy would be any different.
I wouldn't worry about it. I never think she's coming onto me when she tries to get us alone together, I know it's purely a matter of her enjoying my company, despite knowing the feelings she had (and I think still has, to a degree) for me, I don't see why this guy would be any different.
Reply 3
I went out with one of his close friends (when I found out there wasn't a chance of anything happening) so that's ruined chances of anything ever happening. I'm not after a relationship with him now, I just want to be closer to him as a friend, because he's a really great guy.
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