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Why do girls ignore emails?

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Original post by npatel3
I concur. This girl is terrible to have used you like this. You need to wean yourself off her messaging. If you like, message her once or twice more, but try to avoid responding with more than 1 sentence. If she starts to respond more, she is trying to reel you in again. Avoid it and start talking to nice women whom you deserve.



Tbh then better to just avoid/don't message her. She clearly isn't initiating, so don't bother wasting your time with this user. She likes you and wants to keep you as a reserve option. Who does that?!

If she is hot, wean yourself off by fapping to her FB picture, but avoid talking to her.


That's what I mean dude!
Original post by KittyRe-play
That's what I mean dude!


Original post by npatel3
I concur. This girl is terrible to have used you like this. You need to wean yourself off her messaging. If you like, message her once or twice more, but try to avoid responding with more than 1 sentence. If she starts to respond more, she is trying to reel you in again. Avoid it and start talking to nice women whom you deserve.



Tbh then better to just avoid/don't message her. She clearly isn't initiating, so don't bother wasting your time with this user. She likes you and wants to keep you as a reserve option. Who does that?!

If she is hot, wean yourself off by fapping to her FB picture, but avoid talking to her.


Okay cool. I may keep fapping to her picture, she is hot.

Original post by KittyRe-play
You're most welcome dude,
You need to cut down the messaging issue you have. Then slowly cut out all contacts with her. You can't make it obvious I can't emphasize that enough. One step at a time! Just live life...without her...she's a beech lol. Good luck mate! :biggrin:


Yeah I'll wean myself off the messaging, already have for nearly a month by next week! I suppose I'll have to forget her being a friend then. Still plenty of other friends and in terms of romance, plenty of other girls out there!

Realise this is delicate, but is it all right that I still find her hot and have occasionally erm.. masturbated to her?
Reply 82
Original post by NebulousBlue
They change their mind, simple. Guys do it to - ask a girl out and then think, for whatever reason, actually I'm not all that into this girl.


Original post by KittyRe-play
You're most welcome dude,
You need to cut down the messaging issue you have. Then slowly cut out all contacts with her. You can't make it obvious I can't emphasize that enough. One step at a time! Just live life...without her...she's a beech lol. Good luck mate! :biggrin:


Original post by KittyRe-play
That's what I mean dude!


Yep agree with these comments. She's a bit of a nut.

To wean off of her, stop the messaging, just release your frustrations by fapping to her picture.

Take your emotions and great persona and talk to a girl who deserves you.

Nothing wrong with fantasising about the nut, just don't bother talking to her.
Its okay that you find her hot...but move on!
Original post by npatel3
Yep agree with these comments. She's a bit of a nut.

To wean off of her, stop the messaging, just release your frustrations by fapping to her picture.

Take your emotions and great persona and talk to a girl who deserves you.

Nothing wrong with fantasising about the nut, just don't bother talking to her.


Original post by Anonymous
Its okay that you find her hot...but move on!


Okay cool. I have moved on from messaging. I have not sent anything for nearly a month and don't plan to.

Is it all right that I fap to her picture from FB?
Who uses email to chat to people?
Original post by Anonymous
Okay cool. I have moved on from messaging. I have not sent anything for nearly a month and don't plan to.

Is it all right that I fap to her picture from FB?


Original post by Anonymous
Its okay that you find her hot...but move on!


Original post by KittyRe-play
That's what I mean dude!



It's fine that you are attracted to her physically. Just avoid falling for the trap of being nice to a bad person by initiating convo all the time.

You are a nice guy. Don't let her waste your time writing to her. Be with your other friends and write to real good friends.

But by all means, fap fap away my friend to her picture.
Original post by Anonymous
Okay cool. I have moved on from messaging. I have not sent anything for nearly a month and don't plan to.

Is it all right that I fap to her picture from FB?


Do whatever you want just ignore her IRL basically. :smile:
Original post by chukster97
Who uses email to chat to people?


Haha I know, but read the story and you'll understand.

We used to chat on work messenger. I had her number when she lived here, but she lives abroad.

When I email her, it goes straight to her work messenger inbox, so it's like messenger essentially.

How do you ask her for her whatsapp in a smooth way?

Is she worth pursuing? Is it all right that I fap to her picture?
Right so so long as I ignore her or don't message her, it's all right to masturbate to her picture still?
Original post by Anonymous
Right so so long as I ignore her or don't message her, it's all right to masturbate to her picture still?


Just ignore her in terms of don't message her first. If she sends you one, reply once then ignore just like she did.

Avoid real life contact, but yes, you can think of her whilst fapping or fap to her picture, that's fine.
Reply 91
Fap to her as much as you want. Just don't message her unless she messages you.

Even then, perhaps avoid it if you end up disappointed by her poor manners.
Original post by Abstraction
You've already found the solution, man. You don't have to sever the 'friendship', but don't waste time propping it up either. She isn't worth your energy. Should she ever contact you again, give her limited and unenthusiastic answers to her questions. Strict need-to-know basis. Don't make her feel she's worth your attention. Good luck

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Cool. I will avoid messaging her. Is it all right that I fap to her picture?
Reply 93
Original post by Anonymous
Cool. I will avoid messaging her. Is it all right that I fap to her picture?


Original post by Anonymous
Right so so long as I ignore her or don't message her, it's all right to masturbate to her picture still?


Yes don't be tempted to message her. You're too nice!

If you are physically attracted to her, then by all means fap away to her picture.
Reply 94
Try to avoid her by thinking this: Does she add anything to your life?

Is she a real friend?
Original post by neerajpatel
Just ignore her in terms of don't message her first. If she sends you one, reply once then ignore just like she did.

Avoid real life contact, but yes, you can think of her whilst fapping or fap to her picture, that's fine.


Original post by KittyRe-play
That's what I mean dude!



Okay, I have avoided emailing her for a month now.

I keep having these sexual urges about her. I fapped to her fb profile picture yesterday and then pasted it onto a celebrity body and then played some porn whilst fapping to her.

How to relieve my stress?! She's got into my head!
Original post by swarly
if i had to guess. she doesnt like YOU. she likes the ATTENTION you give her.


I do find her physically attractive. I mean I fap to her fb profile picture and found a pornstar who looks similar to her and fapped to that.

She's in my head, how to relieve stress?

Is it all right to fap to her?
I say take back control from that mother****er and then see exactly who is in charge , by giving her what she wants she is able to dominate you and control you.
Original post by Luketreherne
I say take back control from that mother****er and then see exactly who is in charge , by giving her what she wants she is able to dominate you and control you.


I agree. I would contact her once and then not respond to her message.

Fapping to her is fine, that's natural fantasy.
Original post by Luketreherne
I say take back control from that mother****er and then see exactly who is in charge , by giving her what she wants she is able to dominate you and control you.


Original post by neerajpatel
I agree. I would contact her once and then not respond to her message.

Fapping to her is fine, that's natural fantasy.



I agree, I feel so used right now. She messaged me everyday, I always responded. Now she hardly replies. From a constant flow of conversation the whole day, every 5 minutes, it's gone to one reply to my email, then doesn't reply anymore.

I mean I could email her everyday, but given the response rate (which is sometimes nil), I don't bother. I have tried emailing once a week, but with varied success. Should I email her often? It goes to her messenger so she sees it.

I am slightly attracted to her. I have fapped to her picture to relieve the stress. I may have pasted her face on a picture with a hot lacy dress and fapped to that.

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