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Relationship privacy gone

I left my phone on the side in my room and my brother comes up to me and calls me all these names as he read a message off my bf. It was quite personal and kinky to do with our private life - a bit unusual. I was a bit off with my bf on the phone as it reminded me of how sick and violated I feel that our 'secret' it isn't anymore.

How do you deal with privacy and making someone forget about this message (he is immature for his age and finds making remarks funny). I just want my privacy back.
Reply 1
He only read something, and it's only your little brother. He'll get over it soon.

I don't think you've particularly lost your privacy tbh.
Reply 2
:ditto:
Reply 3
I must say, now you've said it was private, I'd rather like to know.
Reply 4
tell me about it! but not the point. yeh your bro will get over it, i once had to convince my little bro the creaking was me and my boyfriend dancing! they quickly forget.
Reply 5
Dancing - LOL
Reply 6
Anonymous
I left my phone on the side in my room and my brother comes up to me and calls me all these names as he read a message off my bf. It was quite personal and kinky to do with our private life - a bit unusual. I was a bit off with my bf on the phone as it reminded me of how sick and violated I feel that our 'secret' it isn't anymore.

How do you deal with privacy and making someone forget about this message (he is immature for his age and finds making remarks funny). I just want my privacy back.



Its not as if theres a video of you on youtube or something. Why dont you just ignore what your brother says and he'll get bored.
JayB124
Dancing - LOL

have you not heard of the horizontal tango before?
Reply 8
...bro the creaking was me and my boyfriend dancing! they quickly forget.


Either he was very young, or very stupid.
Reply 9
ignore it. he will soon get bored.