Tricky situation

Ok I met this guy at uni before I had a boyfriend, nothing much really happened apart from a kiss or 2, then a few months later I saw him again and I did some stuff I shouldn't of (with me having a bf and stuff) I've clarified the situation with him and told him it was a mistake and 1 off but now he quit uni and told me to let him no wen I'm going out so he can come out with me sometime, as mates.

The thing is should I trust his intentions because I know he has a thing for me, but I would no way go there again. Should I just not bother and casually reply to his texts but not initiate invitations?

Reply 1

mipmapped

He's looking for a shag, but there's no reason why he couldn't come with you in a group.

but I would no way go there again.

Are you sure? Was it

I would no way go there

before the last time?

Reply 2

Mr.God

Tell him you're not going to go out with him because of what happened before (if you're still with your boyfriend).

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

mipmapped

He's looking for a shag, but there's no reason why he couldn't come with you in a group.

Are you sure? Was it before the last time?

Yeh of course it wouldn't just be us two, and am i sure what wasn't before the last time?

And he didn't get a shag last time and he aint getting one now!

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Mr.God

Tell him you're not going to go out with him because of what happened before (if you're still with your boyfriend).

I have but he is male and some don't take no for an answer do they?

Reply 5

Mr.God

What choice does he have? Say no means no, and if he keeps on then don't reply to him.

Reply 6

mipmapped

I have but he is male and some don't take no for an answer do they?

Well, they're called rapists. Not the best people to hang around with.

Reply 7

username47781

Say no this guy wants to get in your underwear, it's bad anyway because you already have a boyfriend you should not have even kissed him in the first place, are you and your boyfriend having problems.