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Female friend cut me off

This is an update to my thread a few weeks ago can be found here:
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=280445
Please reply to this thread however.

Well my update is what the title suggests, my female friend and I (both 15) had a fall out nearly 2 weeks ago on Thursday.

Since then she hasn't talked to me. I am finding this so so hard especially because when I see her at school I wish she would just talk to me and say she is over it and wants to start again.
Its really hard I have left her alone and not contacted her since 31st August but she has seen me at school as I have seen her and she will glance at me before walking off really annoys me.

I don't know what to do or say that will get her to be friends again, we were so close before, even though we may not be as close again, I know I want to clear the air and just sort this out with her and talk to her.
Even though she has blocked me on MSN, changed her mobile number and never replies to emails.:mad: :mad:

Any suggestions/comments on a postcard.
Please don't have a go at me - shows you how much she means to me I don't want to loose her or loose contact and its so hard at school.
Feel so helpless. :frown:
There is no easy way of saying this but you need to stop obsessing over this girl and leave things as they are.

Stop e-mailing her, waiting for her to unblock you or finding any other way of contacting her. Obsessing over one person doesn't do anyone any good, trust me I've been there.
Reply 2
She probably feels the same way as you. Talk to her in person and find out exactly what she thinks of the situation.
Reply 3
Leave her alone. I can't imagine how psychopathic and stalkerish you must appear. I imagine she's shown all of the texts and the e-mails to her friends and they're laughing at you.

As the poster before me said: GET OVER IT. She's treated you like a piece of crap and wants nothing to do with you.

Accept it and move on.
I would stop all contact with her if i were you.
Anonymous
This is an update to my thread a few weeks ago can be found here:
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=280445
Please reply to this thread however.

Well my update is what the title suggests, my female friend and I (both 15) had a fall out nearly 2 weeks ago on Thursday.

Since then she hasn't talked to me. I am finding this so so hard especially because when I see her at school I wish she would just talk to me and say she is over it and wants to start again.
Its really hard I have left her alone and not contacted her since 31st August but she has seen me at school as I have seen her and she will glance at me before walking off really annoys me.

I don't know what to do or say that will get her to be friends again, we were so close before, even though we may not be as close again, I know I want to clear the air and just sort this out with her and talk to her.
Even though she has blocked me on MSN, changed her mobile number and never replies to emails.:mad: :mad:

Any suggestions/comments on a postcard.
Please don't have a go at me - shows you how much she means to me I don't want to loose her or loose contact and its so hard at school.
Feel so helpless. :frown:

I thought this was going to be another thread on circumcision :indiff:
Reply 6
lol ^
She clearly doesn't value your friendship as much as you, and is obviously trying to break all ties with you. Find another friend you can confide in and leave the relationship as it is, you're obviously winding her up more and more with wanting to get your friendship back but she obviously doesn't want it. It sounds to me like she's scared of supporting you and discussing with you your operation, maybe she feels she can't be the supportive friend you need. Hard as it to end friendships, its what you need to do, for now. Maybe in a few weeks/months she will realise how out of order she has been for leaving you at such a critical time or maybe you will come to realise she's not worth getting worked up over. Seems to me like she was a very good friend, but now she's just dumping you, doesn't seem very nice to me...
Good luck with everything xxx