could this lead to something more?

This past weekend I went to a party with a guy I had been conversating with for about a month. We seemed to get along and find each other physically and emotionally attractive. However, I drank way too much at the party and ended up in his bed that night. We hooked up very passionately, but didn't fully on sleep with each other. I told him "I'm sure you're never gonna call me again" and he said, "I'll bet you $400 that I do." The next morning he dropped me off and told me he'd call me later.

I'm wondering if he probably thought this was a one night deal, without ever speaking to me again, or if he might be considering seeing/talking to me again?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

did you guys have sex?

I think he will call you

Reply 2

Montrose

17

Well it's hard to say really, just depends on how honest the guy is. If he seemed interested in you emotionally as well as physically, I would say there is a good chance.

Reply 3

Mr.God

7

Who knows? We don't know anything about this guy or his MO.

Reply 4

MagicNMedicine

20

did you take the bet?

He'll call.

LAbeachy87

This past weekend I went to a party with a guy I had been conversating with for about a month. We seemed to get along and find each other physically and emotionally attractive. However, I drank way too much at the party and ended up in his bed that night. We hooked up very passionately, but didn't fully on sleep with each other. I told him "I'm sure you're never gonna call me again" and he said, "I'll bet you $400 that I do." The next morning he dropped me off and told me he'd call me later.

I'm wondering if he probably thought this was a one night deal, without ever speaking to me again, or if he might be considering seeing/talking to me again?

hmm.
well he did drop you off at home.
i dunno, don't take his word full on about what he said, its really hard but try not to expect anything, because the less you expect the more you'll be surprised with what happens (in your favour).

Reply 7

gloria

he wont call again , if he does he just wants to use you and drop you along the way , think my dear girl

Reply 8

username47781

20

The fact you got into bed with him the first night you met him does not bode well, he may call but he may not.

Reply 9

OC_girl

why $400??

I kind of know what you mean in this situation, when you like a guy and take it further than you'd thought you'd allow yourself (due to drink or whatever) then you wonder what the guy will think about you as a result. But if he was willing to go to bed with you so soon then he can't hold it against you.

Reply 10

LAbeachy87

OP

Anonymous

did you guys have sex?

I think he will call you

ummm... we sort of did. but i stopped it before it escalated too far

Reply 11

LAbeachy87

OP

Mr.God

Who knows? We don't know anything about this guy or his MO.

what's MO?

Reply 12

mipmapped

13

It's like those people who bet on the end of the world.

If he doesn't call you, he'll never have to give you $400.

If he does, he'll never have to give you $400.

Clever old dog.

Reply 13

LAbeachy87

OP

hey guys well he called me... so thanks for your advice and problem solved :smile:

Reply 14

Mr.God

7

LAbeachy87

what's MO?

Modus operandi. His traditional method of operation. Does he do this a lot? Is it a habit for him? etc.

Reply 15

Ron Stoppable

14

LAbeachy87

This past weekend I went to a party with a guy I had been conversating with for about a month. We seemed to get along and find each other physically and emotionally attractive. However, I drank way too much at the party and ended up in his bed that night. We hooked up very passionately, but didn't fully on sleep with each other. I told him "I'm sure you're never gonna call me again" and he said, "I'll bet you $400 that I do." The next morning he dropped me off and told me he'd call me later.

I'm wondering if he probably thought this was a one night deal, without ever speaking to me again, or if he might be considering seeing/talking to me again?

Given that P_{(he considered it a ONS)} > 0, yes. :wink:

could this lead to something more?

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