whos in the wrong?

my friends pissed off with me because i didnt go to a party we said we'd go together to. i just didnt want to go. i dont think its fair that she thinks she can dictate my life. if she didnt go in the end to something, i would be disappointed but not pissed off. ive texted her three times but no reply. i dont want to say sorry because then she will have more reason to make me feel bad, when i dont think im in the wrong. what should i do??nits really getting me down as i hate having anomosity with people :frown:

Reply 1

matt@internet

12

Anonymous

my friends pissed off with me because i didnt go to a party we said we'd go together to. i just didnt want to go. i dont think its fair that she thinks she can dictate my life. if she didnt go in the end to something, i would be disappointed but not pissed off. ive texted her three times but no reply. i dont want to say sorry because then she will have more reason to make me feel bad, when i dont think im in the wrong. what should i do??nits really getting me down as i hate having anomosity with people :frown:

I'd get some of that special shampoo. Seriously though, I think you're both in the wrong. Your friend shouldn't have a paddy because you didn't want to go, and you said you'd go, so you really should.

Reply 2

Mr.God

7

You said you would and then you let her down. I'd be pissed off too.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

yeah i know i should have stuck to my word, but if she had done the same thing, i wouldnt be pissed off cos its her choice.

Reply 4

Mr.God

7

I think you'd be in the minority there.

Reply 5

That artistic one

1

Anonymous

yeah i know i should have stuck to my word, but if she had done the same thing, i wouldnt be pissed off cos its her choice.

has she ever done it to you before by not sticking to her word??

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

i just think its unfair to hold a grudge, its been nearly a week now..

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Did you just not turn up or did you say "Sorry but l've changed my mind and l don't feel like going"? lf it was the first, l can understand her being annoyed, though not to the barmy extent of ignoring you. lf it was the second, then she's got nothing to be annoyed about, it's just a disappointment. After all, parties are supposed to be fun, if you wouldn't enjoy it it would spoil it for her anyway. Either way, don't bother contacting her, just wait till she speaks to you.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

i told her the day before that i wasnt really in the mood for going.. i said i'll probably feel different tomorrow.. then i told her the next day i was out and didnt wanna rush back for something i didnt really wanna go to, which was the truth.

Reply 9

ciara

13

pretty simple one this. you both agreed you'd go, and then you didn't. therefore you owe her an apology really. she may have overreacted (sounds like it to be honest), but that doesn't change the fact that you were in the wrong originally. just apologise, by being stubborn you're being just as bad as your friend!

Reply 10

Schroedinger's Pandora

13

Wow, she must have really wanted to go :frown:

She'll forgive you.. She's probably just on her rags or something ..

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