my penis is ruining my life

well, i basically need some reassurance and advice because my penis is really ruining my life. i feel so self concious or whatever because people r always like how bigs your dick? etc (well they don't say that at me, but you know its like ur manhood) anyway, my penis is 2 and a bit inches when fully erect. i feel so bad because if a girl saw it, or even a boy accidently, i'd get terrored wouldnt i. the thing is this has ruined my life so much, i heard theres always alot of sex floating round uni and so i actually didnt apply because i was nervous id be stuck in some situation where a girl would see my penis. now i'm 21 and i'm still just a pot washer at a local place. yes please dont laugh, my life has already been ruined. Most of my friends have just graduated and r on decent livings :frown:

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2inches erect!

Anonymous

well, i basically need some reassurance and advice because my penis is really ruining my life. i feel so self concious or whatever because people r always like how bigs your dick? etc (well they don't say that at me, but you know its like ur manhood) anyway, my penis is 2 and a bit inches when fully erect. i feel so bad because if a girl saw it, or even a boy accidently, i'd get terrored wouldnt i. the thing is this has ruined my life so much, i heard theres always alot of sex floating round uni and so i actually didnt apply because i was nervous id be stuck in some situation where a girl would see my penis. now i'm 21 and i'm still just a pot washer at a local place. yes please dont laugh, my life has already been ruined. Most of my friends have just graduated and r on decent livings :frown:

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Maybe see a doctor?? :|

Reply 3

squigaletta

Go to the doctors, if its really ruining your life then you can get surgery on it to make it bigger, if its that bad then I don't think surgery will be as big a problem. And if it is distressing you this much you can probably get it on the NHS. Look into it.

Reply 4

Mr.God

7

I... don't know what to say.

Penis enlargement surgery might help a little.

However, women are essentially shallow creatures, and if you work hard and get rich then you will essentially be fine with women, since you'll be able to afford to pamper them. Ultimately, that's what they all want.

Reply 5

Captain Haddock

18

well umm.. wow

id consider surgery

Reply 6

person 34

9

Mr.God

I... don't know what to say.

Penis enlargement surgery might help a little.

However, women are essentially shallow creatures, and if you work hard and get rich then you will essentially be fine with women, since you'll be able to afford to pamper them. Ultimately, that's what they all want.

OMG how can you say us women are shallow? we want sex too.

Reply 7

Esquire

1

Where to start....
Your penis is not an ornament for other people to look at, it is merely a part of your body like your face. Like faces, they come in all different shapes and sizes. I think any kind of sport would help you gain confidence in your own skin, this is more important than anything for making you feel comfortable about yourself.
Secondly, if you have any half way decent A levels you could apply to uni as a mature student, this would at least make you feel as if your life has some direction which I think you may lack at the moment. That would contribute to making you a more confident person.
The fact is that you are a 21 year old man who can't go around having hang ups about his penis size for the rest of his life. 2 and a bit inches is better than nothing. Just have fun with it.

Reply 8

OC_girl

To be honest i wouldn't worry too much about it. Sex isn't everything.

If i was in love with you then it wouldn't matter to me the size of your penis or even if we didn't have sex so long as there was an emotional/intellectual connection. Besides that, to me foreplay is much better than sex and it doesn't usually involve a penis.

Please don't let it ruin your life, the size of your penis doesn't make you any better/worse a person.

Reply 9

Lucy_88

10

Did you know that size doesn't make any difference to how good it makes a women feel. Maybee they do operations on the nhs though if it's ruining your life. About not going to university because of it though i think thats a bit silly it's not as if you have to have sex if you don't want to. And i'm sure if you have a serious relationship with someone and they have a nice personality they wont mind too much. It's not as if it makes a difference really appart from appearance.

Reply 10

squigaletta

Although the sentences how can you say we're shallow we wan sex too seems slightly contradictory, I agree in essense that Mr. God's post is a bit full of ****. Women want a complete relationship, you can stuff your pampering, I'd rather have a man who loves me and who I love, thankyou very much.

Reply 11

squigaletta

And to OP, get good at foreplay and a woman will be too delerious to know what the hell your penis size is.

Reply 12

Mr.God

7

Is it so difficult to tell when I'm joking? I wouldn't try and generalise all women.

Still, the fact that Hugh Heffner and Peter Stringfellow have slept with tens of thousands of incredible looking women tells you something about how important wealth is to women.

Gutting.

Anonymous

well, i basically need some reassurance and advice because my penis is really ruining my life. i feel so self concious or whatever because people r always like how bigs your dick? etc (well they don't say that at me, but you know its like ur manhood) anyway, my penis is 2 and a bit inches when fully erect. i feel so bad because if a girl saw it, or even a boy accidently, i'd get terrored wouldnt i. the thing is this has ruined my life so much, i heard theres always alot of sex floating round uni and so i actually didnt apply because i was nervous id be stuck in some situation where a girl would see my penis. now i'm 21 and i'm still just a pot washer at a local place. yes please dont laugh, my life has already been ruined. Most of my friends have just graduated and r on decent livings :frown:

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You are joking right?! You dont have to have sex at uni ... :rolleyes:

Reply 15

OC_girl

Mr.God

Is it so difficult to tell when I'm joking? I wouldn't try and generalise all women.

Still, the fact that Hugh Heffner and Peter Stringfellow have slept with tens of thousands of incredible looking women tells you something about how important wealth is to women.

If i am brutally honest (don't hate me people) i would sacrifice sex for wealth, but not for love. So if i loved a man anyway and he couldn't satisfy me sexually but could financially then i wouldn't have the slightest qualm.

Reply 16

Mellanie

1

OC_girl

To be honest i wouldn't worry too much about it. Sex isn't everything.

If i was in love with you then it wouldn't matter to me the size of your penis or even if we didn't have sex so long as there was an emotional/intellectual connection. Besides that, to me foreplay is much better than sex and it doesn't usually involve a penis.

Please don't let it ruin your life, the size of your penis doesn't make you any better/worse a person.

I beg to differ :biggrin:

Reply 17

JayEm

14

It seems your life revolves around your penis.

Reply 18

Lucy_88

10

^you already said that don't rub it in!

Reply 19

Mr.God

7

OC_girl

If i am brutally honest (don't hate me people) i would sacrifice sex for wealth, but not for love. So if i loved a man anyway and he couldn't satisfy me sexually but could financially then i wouldn't have the slightest qualm.

There we go. Some honesty. Nothing to be ashamed of there. Men and women are simply different animals. It's a woman's instincts to find a mate who is a protector, and that equals financial solvency. It's the same reason that women are attracted to confident men.

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