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Signs that a guy is not THAT into you

as the title of the thread says.

What is the biggest signs that that a guy doesn't fancy you or is not all that interested?

Reply 1

DontBuyTheSun

He doesnt talk to you, or he doesnt make an effort to.

Reply 2

Invocation

Thats a really hard question. If he doesnt recognise your signals he may just be shy.

Reply 3

Clarence

Guys are very complicated as i have began to find out.

Reply 4

rachelrainbow32

Not talking to you when you pay him attention. Not texting you back. erm..... god guys are confusing.

Reply 5

General Mullet

It's a difficult one really. Not sure about the not texting back one, I hardly ever reply to text messages because I only like communicating face to face.

Reply 6

matt@internet

That's one of the many things about TSR that I love. There are sensible gals who don't believe that guys are easy to figure out. It's lovely because it's true.

Reply 7

Sezkin

Anonymous

as the title of the thread says.

What is the biggest signs that that a guy doesn't fancy you or is not all that interested?

I dunno about this cos I'm a girl but I'll think of some ideas:

He doesn't talk to you...when you try to pay him attention and keep questioning him.

He doesn't text you when you text first.

He doesn't add your msn when you gave him your addy.

He doesn't notice that you're around when he's hanging around with your friends...

Pfft I'm not sure. Depends on the guys. There are some factors such as shyness and also some lads totally ignore girls even when he fancies her. It's weird. Lads are so complicated to read.

Reply 8

User69701

Now, it will depend on the guy. I mean some guys wouldn't talk about other girls to a girl they liked, but others would to feel her out/make a connection.

He doesn't text you when you text first.

He doesn't add your msn when you gave him your addy.

I'll agree with these two but not the other. If a guy liked you and you texted him when he had no credit, believe me, he will do anything to get some to text you back.

Some guys pretend to like girls, for many reasons. One of them being to give the girl a confidence boost.

You have to remember that the guy in question may think that he has no chance with someone like you and that at best you can only be friends. He may purposefully hide his true feelings.

Sorry I wasn't much help but the fact is that most guys are capable of hiding their feelings.

Reply 9

Dark and Lovely

This post is just what i needed...the guy in question is obviously not that into me and ive realised i'm not bothered...guess am not really into him either...oh well