Growing increasingly confused about my identity, sexuality, gender role and values, in the process feeling a lot of self-criticism about how I fail to live up to what women deserve and should demand. After all this is the attitude of so many 16 year old girls with princess syndrome (not excusing the heartless bad boys here). Look on Tumblr and you will see these sorts of expectations…maybe there's a point, maybe all the good, strong, real men have gone.
Whoever reps me is an idiot. Look I'm just doing very dirty work, to make a point that patriarchy hurts men too.
1. If the man cheats, it's the man's fault for being unfaithful.
If the woman cheats, it's the man's fault for being a loser and not upping his game
2. If the man dumps her, it's the man's fault for being shallow, superficial, impatient and failing to see her inner beauty/awesomeness
If the woman dumps him, she can do better than a nobody like him
3. If a man calls an overweight/obese woman out on her weight, e.g. saying he's not finding her as attractive, he's a shallow misogynistic pig and she should dump him for someone who respects her for who she is
If a woman calls a man out on his body, he's necessarily an overweight or obese one just slightly tubby/skinny and not really doing it for her, how dare he fail to reach the Adonis ideal. As a man his first duty should be to man up, hit the gym and get shredded, if he doesn't he's lazy selfish and doesn't love her and she should dump his sorry ass
4. If a woman gropes a man, he's got a nice ass and he should feel complimented, if he feels uncomfortable he's insecure which is such a turn-off, and anyway he's come to a night-club with a nice ass, he's basically askiing for it
If a man gropes a woman, it's sexual harassment and there should be a fine if not imprisonment, and ideally the man should be placed on the Sex Offenders Register
5. If a woman stays as a home-maker, that's her prerogative for following traditionalist roles-the fact she has no baby or children to look after is irrelevant
If a man stays as a home-maker/to look after the kids, he's taking the easy way out and should get a bloody job like a man. If he has to go to work he should hire a nanny; if he can't afford a nanny he should get 2 jobs
6. If a woman is off work sick with fever, she needs some time-out before she burns herself out, and needs to go easy on herself
If a man is off work sick with fever, it's not fever it's man-flu, men these days are so pathetic
7. If a woman has mental health issues, and on sick leave, she needs time to recuperate from a serious condition
If a man has mental health issues, and takes time off-or mentions it to his boss-he's got man-depression i.e. needs to realise when the going gets tough the tough get going lad, now pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get on with it!
8. If a woman has low self-esteem because she feels ugly, society is at fault for putting too much pressure on young women to look good-cf recent Dove campaign on Photoshopping-the right guy will see past that
If a man has low self-esteem because he feels ugly, someone's a bitter friend zone forveeralone 'Nice Guy', wow what a creep
9. If a woman feels she falls short of society's expectations, modern woman is expected to be Supergirl and place everyone-the system is corrupt, don't believe the media hype, we're only human!
If a man feels he falls short of society's expectations he's obviously a bitter lazy slob who wants to sit around p[laying video games all day. Might I suggest he goes and lifts some heavy **** up to grow back his balls? God, grow up.
10. If a woman needs a shoulder to cry on after a hard day, everyone's human and any good boyfriend would be the first to reassure her
If a man needs a shoulder to cry on after a hard day/week/year, that's no man it's a man-child, DTMFA and let him grow up. Exception: 2-4 week grieving allowance for recent dead parents…at girlfriend's discretion
11. If a woman bails on the baby/suggests abortion, he's scum for sleeping with her so irresponsibly (even if he said yes)
If a man bails on the baby/suggests abortion, he's scum
more to come soon :/