signs that a guy has lost interest in you

as the title of the thread says.

What is the biggest signs that that a guy has lost interest in you (after you have been going with them for quite a while ie 18 months
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Reply 1

Tyler Durden

Doesn't make any effort to spend time with you.
Doesn't call or text without being texted first.
Not so into sex.

If you have to ask the chances are you might have issues. Sorry!

Reply 2

Triplet1

he doesnt make much an effort when he is around you.

Reply 3

Triplet1

oo an maybe doesnt seem happy??!

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

your right it's all of those except the sex is still ok, #emo#

Reply 5

Jontheone

englishstudent

Doesn't make any effort to spend time with you.
Doesn't call or text without being texted first.
Not so into sex.

Yep, that pretty much covers it.

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

well, boys will be boys

Reply 7

El Scotto

Anonymous

as the title of the thread says.

What is the biggest signs that that a guy has lost interest in you (after you have been going with them for quite a while ie 18 months
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You see him have a little shudder at your mere touch.

You catch him looking at you disapointedly/disgustedly.

Not answering phone calls.

Re-finding how great mates actually are...

Goes through the motions of being in bed, whilst not really into it.

Umm... can't think of anymore. : )

Reply 8

Bubblebee

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Reply 9

He ignores you

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

but why don't guys just finish the relationship? why do they keep it going and your'e on tenterhooks all the time knowing there is something wrong but not want to finish it because you love him so much.

Guys out there why?

Reply 11

El Scotto

Anonymous

because she'll cry, we'll feel bad. Then we'll look bad to all her friends.

so we try and get finished with instead. its easier.

Reply 12

Tyler Durden

Anonymous

your right it's all of those except the sex is still ok, #emo#

Yeah, to be honest the sex could be the last thing to go. He might still think you're hot (or just find having sex pleasurable enough to carry on) without being into you as such. This is worst case scenario btw!

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

He stops kissing/hugging you, and always gives lame excuses why.
His phone is always off/he doesn't answer.
He doesn't bother going places with you anymore.
He gets touchy/offended when you try and talk things through, and won't listen to your suggestions to improve matters, so more arguments are caused.
He doesn't put any effort in present-buying or remembering special dates etc.
He avoids putting you and his friends in the same context at all costs.
He doesn't treat your opinions with respect.

My ex did all of these then flipped when I dumped him! :rolleyes:

Reply 14

Anonymous #4

He won't make an effort to spend time with you.

He'll make plans to be out with his friends instead.

There will be lame excuses as to why he can't see you.

He won't bother texting and ringing as much unless you make the effort first, even then he might not actually bother to return the text or call.
He won't be as keen to hold hands with you or have much contact when you're out.

Wandering eyes...

He'll do all of that and more and still not break up with you personally because it's too much hassle. He's hoping that by annoying you enough you'll do the dumping for him so he comes off in a better position.

Reply 15

Anonymous #5

see though when a boy dumps a girl all her mates will instantly hate him and every one she knows will hate him, also when a boy dumps a girl she will cry and then blah blah and you will prob end up getting back with her so you dont have to make her feel so bad and make you feel bad in return.

also it makes me laugh at how much girls on here degrade males, when a post with the word "birds" in it caused so much contraversy, hipochrites!