Seem like no-one of the opposite sex is that exciting in my area

Possibly the exciting people are avoiding you because you sound incredibly pretentious.

Reply 2

OP

Ooooooooh. You can put your handbag away now :smile:

It's not really a valid criticism from someone who perports to be God anyway

Reply 3

ChrisH2107

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Nor can I believe that there isn't a single interesting female in a city which attracts (guesstimate) around 2000 of the most intelligent such people from all over the world every year to its university.

Reply 4

naivesincerity

Ooooooooh. You can put your handbag away now :smile:

It's not really a valid criticism from someone who perports to be God anyway

Do you mean purports?

Reply 5

OP

Mr.God

Do you mean purports?

Yes, pedant.

Reply 6

OC_girl

You must just be looking in the wrong places or not looking hard enough.
Or perhaps they are hiding from you. :biggrin:

Reply 7

Just checking. I was wondering if an inability to spell accompanied your "internal dullness" and "emptiness" (and no doubt barrenness and desolation as well).

Reply 8

alex_ssf

My advice is change your location! Come to my town and eyes will drop down :smile:

Reply 9

LadyEnglish

Stop having such high standards and expecting every woman who shows interest to be your perfect woman with a perfect IQ who inspires you, it's ridiculous, stop looking for the 'ideal' and look for the 'real', honestly you people make me annoyed, giving up and posting on TSR expecting a load of sympathy and answers when all you need to do is look! Ofcourse there's someone out there, but stop thinking 'is she this, is she that' accept her for what she is, if you don't like her, find someone else. Jebus.

Reply 10

OP

Mr.God

Just checking. I was wondering if an inability to spell accompanied your "internal dullness" and "emptiness" (and no doubt barrenness and desolation as well).

What a tosser :rolleyes:

You call me pretentious, and then hijack my thread trying to make yourself look clever

Reply 11

naivesincerity

What a tosser :rolleyes:

You call me pretentious, and then hijack my thread trying to make yourself look clever

I know they say sarcasm is the lowest form of wit, but I personally like it.

Reply 12

OP

LadyEnglish

Stop having such high standards and expecting every woman who shows interest to be your perfect woman with a perfect IQ who inspires you, it's ridiculous, stop looking for the 'ideal' and look for the 'real',

Well I don't have 'high standards' in the way that you're suggesting. Maybe 'inspiring' was the wrong word also

Reply 13

tomHHHH

stop being stupid i'm sure their is a perfect emo out there for you

Reply 14

Zafda

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naivesincerity

No interesting or exciting women here. What's going on? :frown:

No passion or love for anyone..is that my problem, internal dullness, emptiness, or is it genuinley a dearth of inspiring people?

don't worry, its the same here.
mind you one man to me means more than lots of interesting men.

Reply 15

allymcb2

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LadyEnglish

Stop having such high standards and expecting every woman who shows interest to be your perfect woman with a perfect IQ who inspires you, it's ridiculous, stop looking for the 'ideal' and look for the 'real', honestly you people make me annoyed, giving up and posting on TSR expecting a load of sympathy and answers when all you need to do is look! Ofcourse there's someone out there, but stop thinking 'is she this, is she that' accept her for what she is, if you don't like her, find someone else. Jebus.

Some people don't like to settle for just the most decent person who happens to be available!

******.

Reply 16

LadyEnglish

allymcb2

Some people don't like to settle for just the most decent person who happens to be available!

******.

I'm not saying settle for availability, I'm just saying stop looking for someone perfect because everyone will have their faults. If the OP is looking for a replica of himself in a partner chances are he won't find it, replace settle with compromise and you'll see me point...

Reply 17

LadyEnglish

naivesincerity

Well I don't have 'high standards' in the way that you're suggesting. Maybe 'inspiring' was the wrong word also

Perhaps 'challenging' is the word you're looking for. I agree, a partner who does not challenge the other is not worth having, it would become a very bleak and monotonal relationship with no 'passion' in opposing each other's views.

Reply 18

allymcb2

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I don't see anything wrong with extremely high standards.

I don't think perfection would be attractive in the long-run- sometimes it is the flaws you fall in love with.

And I don't think the OP was looking for someone perfect, just someone fabulous.

Reply 19

OP