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    So today at school, I found out that a lot of my friends think I am being rude and negative... one of them just came up to me and yelled at me telling me i'd been a bad friend by not making an effort. They all seem really annoyed at me but I am honestly not doing it on purpose; they told me it was my fault that we didn't meet up all summer despite the fact that most of them were away for over 6 weeks in the holiday, I was only away for about 3 and a half through different activities and a family holiday. I genuinely don't know what to do... it feels like they all hate me...despite me being the one trying to make sure people are included. I also found out today that some people who I am simply trying to include and make friends with think I am being clingy and trying to get in with the "popular crowd", it is simply because they are good friends with one of my friends...
    Im just feeling really down and dont really know what to do about any of it... I'm not sure who of my friends I can trust and who is saying all this stuff about me...

    screw them! just ask outright if they want to stay friends, and find people that actually work for you
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