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ok so this myt seem dumb but i need ur advice
so me n ma bf r kinda long distance now cos he is in germany with the army and i will soon be in lancaster for uni. So he asked if wna go away somewhere at christmas for a few days and i sed yea. he found this hotel and its rele nice but its like 50 pound per person per nyt. i dnt wna bring this up cos hes paying n i feel bad saying its quite expensive in case he hasnt noticed and then feels like he cant back out of that hotel. but also if he has noticed what if he doesnt know what pppn means? does n e one have n e ideas how to approach this so i know that he is defo cool with this price. or is this not rele expensive?
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Reply 1

Mr.God

Just say to him you think it's quite expensive and ask if he's OK with that.

One of my mates is in the army (just coming back from Iraq, before that he was in germany) and he is absolutely loaded because he has nothing to spend his money on, so I doubt it's that big a deal for your boyfriend.

Reply 2

lil_sweetie

Speak English please.

Reply 3

rave_on

yea i kno how much money he has tho lol. and that he doesnt rele usualy bidget himself well he just spends n then if hes skint hes skint after. so i dnt wnt him to bok it n skint himself l8r in the mnth y'kno? n he hasnt bin to iraq yet so he hasnt had the chance to just save his money cos theres nowt to spend it on. i feel if i say summit, he will think i think hes cheap lol which he isnt

Reply 4

rave_on

lil_sweetie

Speak English please.

sorry i always forget people dont like shortenin in here

Reply 5

Tractor-girlie

Just talk to him say that you think its expensive, however most hotels I have stayed in its well over 50 quid a night each. So doesnt sound too bad. I sure he probably knows how much it will cost and just wants to treat you. :biggrin:

Reply 6

notts

if you say "its quite expensive. you know you dont have to take me anywhere expensive you know"
then he will know you dont want him to pamper you.

but really, it isnt that expensive. in fact its well cheap, for a hotel.