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    So I have a gf but yesterday it was my first day in the department in university.
    I've met that girl who approached me heavily (only very few girls in my life have approached me so much) and she talked to me a lot and in an exciting way. We even found common interests and she was so happy about and she even ignored other people who talked to her, she was just talking to me. Finally, she forced me to give her my facebook, and when she found me (she invited me, I didn't add her) , I could see that her facial expression temporary changed to sadness. I guess because she saw my profile picture of me and my gf. It was so obvious to me that from extreme excitment she went to sadness. Then she said she had to go and she hoped to see me again and she left.

    I am sorry that she was sad. I also had a great time with her and I liked our rare similarities. But I also have a gf. With my gf we recently have some problems and currently it's a LDR, and perhaps with no future. But I am so confused and I don't know what to do. It's true that there some physical (and other) similarities between her and my gf. Since yesterday I have been thinking of her all the time and I keep watching at her pics. (still I haven't added her)
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    1) Dump girlfriend.
    2) Get with this other girl.
    3) ???
    4) Profit.

    Seriously though, if your heart isn't with it with your LDR girlfriend and you're considering the idea of this other girl, then that's not a good sign of things to come really.
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    I would sleep with both...

    Or auction yourself off to the highest bidder.
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    **** long distance relationships

    You've got a nice girl gagging for it near you

    You know what to do, son
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    I'm not sure what you should do, but (I'm sure I don't have to tell you this, but just in case) if you decide to pursue this girl you recently met, please please please do break up with your girlfriend first.
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    If this was a girl, guys would be telling her not to be a slut and have some respect for her boyfriend by rejecting the other guy's advances or something along those lines.



    It's kinda sad, now I'm more older/mature than when I first joined this site, I am more sensitive to double standards. I can't enjoy everyday sexism like I used to . Just thinking out loud.
 
 
 
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