I prefer older guys to guys my age. I'm 20.
My issue is that I feel like a relationship with someone older will never work out. For one, they tend to be at an age they want to settle or have a family - I am not interested in kids ever, and being at uni I don't have the experience to 'settle'.
For instance I'm talking to a near 30yo guy atm, he is lovely and amazing etc. Has a great job, and we get on well. It's flirty etc. sometimes. But he's had serious relationships before and I feel any guy that age or older is after a serious relationship - not just a more relaxed one - since my not wanting kids means there is not often a 'future' from most people.
It's just irritating me as I'm winding myself up over him and other guys because it's what I want, but I don't think I will ever have it. (at least not till I'm that age myself)
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- Thread Starter
- 23-09-2014 20:09
- 23-09-2014 20:12
I'm 78, do you want to date me?
- 23-09-2014 20:17
Why don't you just find a f*** buddy instead or make new friends? You said you want a relationship but one that is not serious. What is the point of a relationship if you don't want it to last?
- 23-09-2014 20:26
Well if your talking guys in their thirties just see if you can find one who has already had children à while back, split up and hence may be less fussed about having more. Or à guy early to kid forties who may not be bothered about having any at that stage in life.
Besides what does having a great job got to do with anything? Is a guy with a misérable job à problem, plenty of miserable jobs out there.