Vanakam tangachi , your aunty is right , I know a few Tamils that have married their cousins and most of them are born with dysfunctions. I have seen you face , I know what you look like , you look fair but you are not that good looking so your aunty made the right choice, just move on..(Original post by Sena5)
Me and my cousin loved each other.
My cousin married another girl cos getting baby with cousins can affect the baby.
I was sad and missed my cousin and also was a bit angry about him leaving me.
So, I didn't reply to any of his call. He stopped answering my calls, emails and texts.
His mother once spoke rude to me- You don't deserve my son and you don't have much qualifications to stand next to him.
I felt really worried and cried later on.
I felt worried for my cousin for not understanding my situation. I cannot tell him that his mother spoke rude to me cos he won't like me speaking bad about his mother. He loves his mother a lot. I also didn't say as he said his decision was to marry another girl and also not to ruin his and his mother's relationship. Feeling really worried...Missing him so much..I still feel him coming closer to me and my lips and whispering into my ears softly..I love him alot..
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