In long term-relationship. Ok to have other girls sitting on lap? Watch

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In a long term relationship, living together.

It's quite common for different girls from my soc to sit on my lap in the union and sports bar.

This is ok, isn't it?

Or should we ask the committee to get more chairs?
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No ask them to get more chairs, living together is a big commitment if I caught my S.O having girls sitting on him I'd be pissed off.
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(Original post by vickidc18)
No ask them to get more chairs, living together is a big commitment if I caught my S.O having girls sitting on him I'd be pissed off.
Hm. Ok. Why do you say "caught" though? This isn't some secret tryst.
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Hm. Ok. Why do you say "caught" though? This isn't some secret tryst.
Ok just dont think it's appropriate to have girls sitting on your lap do you let men sit on your lap or is it just girls?
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Put yourself in her shoes, if she was sitting on another guys lap how would you feel? Would you consider it as being inappropriate? If so, don't do it yourself.

The fact you're having to post about it on here suggests to me that you know its inappropriate, but you want someone to tell you it isn't, so when it happens you feel it's justified.

Which then begs the question, if you want a girl to sit on your lap that isn't your girlfriend, are you actually happy in your relationship?


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Nope.

Nope, nope, nope.
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to be honest i would be rather annoyed.
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I'm in a long term relationship and I wouldn't find it acceptable for me to sit on another guys lap or have a girl sit on my bf's lap. If there were no more seats, I would sooner just stand or sit on the floor.

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It's pretty inappropriate lol. You don't need her bum on your lap and she doesn't need to put her bum there either
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Depends on what your partner feels about it.

If you were with me, and I expect most other people to concur, it would not be ok.
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no. more chairs or the floor
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I'd be unimpressed.
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Hell naw

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Dude it's fine, happens all the time.
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OK to ****.
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Wait there's a taboo to having people sit on your lap?

o h.




so...i should have taken that as flirting??

i'm really oblivious to flirting

like really

unless they actually told me they were flirting I would never notice

probably even then
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only if you let men sit on your lap too.

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Wait there's a taboo to having people sit on your lap?
(Original post by Ruthless Dutchman)

o h.




so...i should have taken that as flirting??

i'm really oblivious to flirting

like really

unless they actually told me they were flirting I would never notice

probably even then


ye it's flirting.
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(Original post by ChickenMadness)



ye it's flirting.
I'll.. be sure to watch out for that..


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erm it's quite weird... i'm pretty sure there are more chairs anyways...
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It wouldn't be acceptable to me.
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