asking a girl out whos already got a b/f.

Reply 20

Just don't.

How would you feel if/when you have a girlfriend in a happy relationship and some **** comes and asks her out. Just shows how little respect he has for you and to be honest people like that are just knobs.

Reply 21

MickeyG

I highly recommend you ask all three of them at the same time, in front of their boyfriends. A mass orgy is inevitable. You are truly a legend, I salute you.

Reply 22

poltroon

Alex Mann

Because they're already taken? How would you feel if you were in a happy relationship with someone and then someone else asked them out?

I think that a woman should be allowed to choose who she goes out with. If she meets someone she likes better than me and wants to go out with them, then so be it.

Reply 23

Profesh

20

Alex Mann

Because they're already taken? How would you feel if you were in a happy relationship with someone and then someone else asked them out? And to the OP...if you don't think it is okay, why would you consider doing it? Do you know what moral standards are then but just ignore them?

Probably, flattered; assuming she said 'no'. Which she would, if our relationship were worth anything.

Morality is irrelevant.

Reply 24

Farrdango

TMHNightfox

since june ive met 3 wonderful girls (all at seperate times though), and ive got to know them reli well and i'd really like to ask them out. but theres one problem, they've got boyfriends, how do i try and ask a girl to go out wiv me if shes already got a boyfriend and succed? all of the time though ive held back because they're already in a relationship. what can i do??

im single as you would have noticed.
any comments much appreciated.

what ever yu do, don't tell either one of them that yu love her. yu'll just end up calling and never getting a response for 3-4 months, and then that one time yu do get through and she answers, she won't talk, but instead, her boyfriend will mock yu. so just stay away.

Reply 25

--

3

Its a really bad idea, not only does it make you a real **** but it hardly ever turns out well. I've done it twice, though not intentionally. In my experience its gone one of two ways, either the ex stalks the girl and then you spend every intimate moment with her mobile going/her talking to him/her explaining that after a 2 year relationship she cant just put the phone down on him. Or, if youre really lucky, the guy stalks you and its only then that you find out he's a rugby player, and a boxer, and built like a brick ****house. Either way, its not fun, stay away!

Reply 26

WoWZa

14

A decision of this nature should be influenced by the individuals' motivational desires. Unless you have befriended one another in a genuine manner or experience homosexual tendencies, I would advise against attempting to form a relationship while she herself is simultaneously engaged in one already. Such an attempt could also trigger torment in him.

Reply 27

samba

6

lol, is it not obvious to you idiots that this bloke is taking the michael? (as observed by the 2 carls :p:

)

Reply 28

Carl

14

the two Carls FTW :biggrin:

Reply 29

samba

6

With avatars like yours, I'm inclined to agree :biggrin:

Reply 30

Montrose

17

samba

lol, is it not obvious to you idiots that this bloke is taking the michael? (as observed by the 2 carls :p:

)

I would like to agree with you but sadly these days you cannot tell. There really are people that silly and lacking in standards out there! :frown:

Reply 31

username47781

20

Carl

the two Carls FTW :biggrin:

Reply 32

username47781

20

Alex Mann

I would like to agree with you but sadly these days you cannot tell. There really are people that silly and lacking in standards out there! :frown:

Yes in a serious side, it's sad to see some guys with no standards and are willing to try anything to woo or steal any girl who is already taken.

Reply 33

MNBStyle

9

TMHNightfox

since june ive met 3 wonderful girls (all at seperate times though), and ive got to know them reli well and i'd really like to ask them out. but theres one problem, they've got boyfriends, how do i try and ask a girl to go out wiv me if shes already got a boyfriend and succed? all of the time though ive held back because they're already in a relationship. what can i do??

im single as you would have noticed.
any comments much appreciated.

So your going to ask all of them out??? or just one of them until one if any says yes???
The answers simple just dont ask any of them out, imagine being in there bf's shoes for a moment.
Theres plenty of nice single girls out there, and if your stuck for choice between 3 girls im sure it wont be hard for you to find 3 nice single girls :biggrin:

Reply 34

Anonymous #2

i dont think the question's been answered. i think he should give them time to deceide but saying "what if...... in the future".

good luck anyway

Reply 35

sparkles_*

hmm thats really tough, and its always the way!! maybe u cud jst let her know (obviously not all 3) that u like them, and leave it up 2 them

Reply 36

thegreenmonk

just dont - its not a nice thing to do. Consider the other people here

Reply 37

Heavynne

It depends what each girl's relationship with her boyfriend is. My last boyfriend, who I've just split up with because of uni, asked me out even though he knew I had a boyfriend. I know some peope will think, what an idiot (or something harsher than that), but he asked how serious we were, and if we were too serious for me to give him my number. I didn't, but after a few times bumping into him on Friday nights etc, I did, because he was a really nice guy and being perfectly honest it was one of the best things I ever did. I mean, the fact that the guy I was going out with at the time was a complete cheating bas.... has nothing to do with it :rolleyes:

Back to you anyway, lol :biggrin:

, I think you should decide which one you like most - who do you have most in common with, etc - and I think the best thing you can do is just tell her you like her and even though you understand that she's in a relationship, you'd like to take her out to dinner or on a date or whatever. Just let her know how you feel (not all three, though), and then the ball's in her court. There's nothing more you can do.$
I seriously suggest not going through them one by one - and I'm not saying you intend to - because what'll almost definitely happen is if one rejects you the second or third one will find out they weren't your 'first choice' and the relationship's over before it's even started.
Good luck with it, though!

Reply 38

matt@internet

12

Don't. It's not right, you ****ing pig. Yes I am ****ing drunk, but my opinion still stands. You shouldn't do it. Interestingly it is amazingly easy to write correctly even when I've had quite a bit (for me) to drink.

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