Such close friends.... I want more

Right well to make it simple me and this girl are like REALLY CLOSE friends I mean there isn't an amount of emphasis you could put on it as to how close we are but I just dunno I like her as more but I don't think anything could happen firstly because we are such close friends and because I don't think she could ever see me in that light, I just seriously wish I could do something about it and I dunno what to do.
All help is greatly appreciated and thanks in advanced.

Reply 1

generalebriety

16

If she doesn't fancy you, don't bother. It won't happen.

Such a simple reply, really.

Reply 2

Captain Haddock

18

You got friend zoned buddy, no chance now.

Reply 3

andy_cole2

14

didnt u ever get that spam email about two friends lol but if you get the no go vibes then dont go, how long u known her?

Reply 4

Chewwy

17

just start flirting with her. see what happens.

Reply 5

PatchTheCatch

OP

6

Well I've gotten close to her over past year I guess and I dunno argh it's pretty crappy feeling like I can't do anything

Reply 6

generalebriety

16

teenageclay

Well I've gotten close to her over past year I guess and I dunno argh it's pretty crappy feeling like I can't do anything

Yeah, but if you can't, you can't. Don't push it or you'll lose your friendship too. And you'll feel crappier then.

Reply 7

happydinosaur

15

Tell her. It is the only way you will ever know. That is what I had to do. It didn't work and we didn't get together but being so honest with each has eventually months later brought us together so much as friends. I am even happier now than ever..so even if you tell her and she doesn't feel the same it may be good for your friendship.

Reply 8

PatchTheCatch

OP

6

I know it's been a long time since I spoke about this but THANKS THANKS THANKS we spoke and my feelings were returned *parties* and I'm really happy about it THANK YOU
Patrick

Reply 9

sparkles_*

the one bit of advice i cna give u is friendships last longer than relationships well in my experience anyway. You jst have 2 think at the end of the day if u was 2 go out and it didnt work out, wud u get that closeness back? chances are not. If u feel like u wud want to chance it than go ahead, otherwise i wudnt. I wudnt jst cum out with it though, u cud try flirting abit and see how she responds to it :redface:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

happydinosaur

Tell her. It is the only way you will ever know. That is what I had to do. It didn't work and we didn't get together but being so honest with each has eventually months later brought us together so much as friends. I am even happier now than ever..so even if you tell her and she doesn't feel the same it may be good for your friendship.

I'd definately not tell her if he isn't getting any vibes. Just coming out and saying he fancies (I hate that word) her could potentially ruin a close friendship.

Such close friends.... I want more

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