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I cant stop thinking about this girl...

I have only met her since a couple of weeks, and i really like her. But i found out the other day that she has a bf, so now i feel kinda ****.

But even after all this, i keep thinking about her, and hoping she likes me in the same way too!. Whats wrong with me?

Reply 1

Nothing is wrong with you...Thats perfectly normal. Just keep getting to know her better and be yourself.

Reply 2

Rather than exerting unecessary work to achieve your aim, take pleasure in her companionship if you are genuinely acquainted with her (girls are not objects). Otherwise, abruptly express your desires to be with her and embrace yourself for an expected rejection.

Reply 3

your in love.

And i say, know her and wait. If her boyfriend finds out...not good. trust me.

Reply 4

I would seriously advise against all of that, why get to know her as a friend?!?! then she thinks all you want is friendship, which makes the situation worse.
2 options really, try not to see her as much and def not on your own, basically avoid much contact with her at all, or basically tell her.

Reply 5

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I have only met her since a couple of weeks, and i really like her. But i found out the other day that she has a bf, so now i feel kinda ****.

But even after all this, i keep thinking about her, and hoping she likes me in the same way too!. Whats wrong with me?


i've felt that a few times, and its a pretty shiiit feeling.
there's nothing wrong with you, i bet you think to yourself that you could be so much of a better boyfriend and you care for her more than any guy could.
then again put it this way, if that guy makes her happy, you should be happy to see her happy.
if that still doesn't work, there probably is someone out there who does/will care for you much more than what she does for you and what you do for her. it'll take time to get over her, especially when you may see her all the time holding hands with her bf/making out with him, its a natural feeling to be jealous and want her, but try to meet other people, go out more with single friends and stuff, it may help.

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