How do I stop feeling so Insecure?

My insecurity is ruining my relationships. My 2 past relationships didnt go to well. My 1st I was used as a door mat and 2nd it started off well but she revealed and I found out stuff about her that most guys would feel insecure about.

Ever since I question allot of things she does even though I should not. She tells me openly herself about most things but that the weird part. Some parts she doesnt reveal but some she does which gets me really insecure.
Like shes close with me but went for a meal with her best guy friend and then went to hes place for 2 hours.
As mentioned in a previous thread, he gave her hes jacket to wear and forgot to take it home. At the house they hugged and according to her could of been much closer if she allowed it to.

Its like when she hears stuff about my x calling me and telling me stuff shes not fussed one bit but with me I just feel hurt that shes able to do these things and not feel guilty.
She said to me she felt guilty that she hugged him and that was it.

I just wanna be a guy who doesnt give a **** really and just lives the moment and doesnt care too much about the future...

Reply 1

hixey101

hmm yes some of us worry too much, theres not a lot we can do about it i guess.

Reply 2

prince of persia

Anonymous

I just wanna be a guy who doesnt give a **** really and just lives the moment and doesnt care too much about the future...

Mmn, doesn't really sound like the kind of attitude that would get you far in a relationship...Everything else you said however makes perfect sense to me, it's natural to feel possesive over your girl, tbh i would be concerned if you didn't :smile:

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