shy guy trouble

I've never been that high in the confidence stakes and with self esteem but over the last year or so have really improved. There's a guy I really like and think he may feel the same but I know his confidence and experience is rock bottom. Therefore I think it would be the only way if I made the first move. I think he'd be flattered but I wouldn't wanna scare him off. What do you think? I suppose I could just go for it next time we're at a party and if he pulls away I'll blame it on the alcohol. Oh it's all so confusin for us girls!!

Reply 1

dutch_stud

Go for the last one, good idea.. :biggrin:

However, alcohol is a means, not an excuse :biggrin:

Reply 2

fat_hobbit

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Anonymous

I've never been that high in the confidence stakes and with self esteem but over the last year or so have really improved. There's a guy I really like and think he may feel the same but I know his confidence and experience is rock bottom. Therefore I think it would be the only way if I made the first move. I think he'd be flattered but I wouldn't wanna scare him off. What do you think? I suppose I could just go for it next time we're at a party and if he pulls away I'll blame it on the alcohol. Oh it's all so confusin for us girls!!

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! :smile:

His obvious shyness hasn't put you off...

Go for it!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

no I think it's made me like him more, I suppose it's a bit of a challenge and he has the most decent personality in the whole world... :rolleyes:

Reply 4

fat_hobbit

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Anonymous

no I think it's made me like him more, I suppose it's a bit of a challenge and he has the most decent personality in the whole world... :rolleyes:

Yes I know, but there are other girls that do get put off by this and just move onto another guy (the ones that make an effort) :rolleyes:

....

Reply 5

alex_ssf

Go for it!I did that, this summer and it worked so well... I've even read in one magazine that guys like it when girls do the first step! And it's also more fun... Trying out wouldn't hurt you :biggrin:

Reply 6

timharvey

go for it....you like him, so ask him out!! :0)

Reply 7

kam

10

What do you have to lose? (if you blame the alcohol) :wink:

Reply 8

hixey101

yeah id say most guys (including me) love the girl to make the first move once in a while!

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Reply 10

username47781

20

How well do you know this guy, do you talk to him much?

Reply 11

Frogsofhope

2

he doesn't look like this does he :tongue:

for trouble with shyguys simply get yoshi to eat them.

Aslo go for gold try flirt with him quite obviously and make a move and report back what luck you get! we need to hear the success stories after these type of questions more often!

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