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Feeling lonely

I've been feeling like this now for a couple of months. i don't have any close friends. I used to. Many just lost contact with me or went their own ways or I got rid of them as they're immature. I've also come out of an emotional wreck of a relationship which lasted for over 6 months.

I don't go out anywhere really as I don't have anyone to go out with. I did go out today for the first time in a week. My little brother and sister are always arguing so I took them out for the day. It was good but still, I feel down.

I do university soon and I am hoping on making good friends there.

Why can't we all trust each other? I don't understand why people blanetly lie all of the time to their friends. White lies are OK to a degree but they can go too far. Why are people so selfish? I can't trust anyone anymore. My mind has been manipulated so much by selfishness. Ahh. Is it me or them?
Personally I think I'm mature and they're not that's why I am lonely. i'd rather be like this than go through the crap they put me through If I be honest but I'm so unhappy. I cry a lot too. Ah :frown:

Reply 1

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Reply 2

here, have some love: <3333

perhaps this loneliness is coming from a part of you that's reluctant to feel otherwise. idk if that makes sense, but since you say you went on a day out which was nice but still feel down... sounds like deep down you want to feel like this?

when you're feeling like this and you can't handle it, don't take life so seriously. just see the funny side of things... i find it helps y'know.

Reply 3

thnx I need a ****

Reply 4

Anonymous
or I got rid of them as they're immature.


lovely. just lovely. how do you think that made THEM feel now?

Reply 5

Going to uni will enable you to make a fresh start and loads of new friends. I tend to trust people until they prove otherwise but this isn't easy if you've had bad experiences. Just sign up for loads of societies in freshers week and you'll soon be too busy to be lonely.

Reply 6

they probably said that you smell behind your back and that they never liked you anyway...

Reply 7

I know exactly how u feel. When im at home i dont have any real friends to go out with and stuff, cos ive just kind of lost touch and we have all gone our seperate ways which makes me feel a bit lonely and down at times.

But im just going into my 2nd year of uni and i cant wait because i have made so many good friends in my first year, and i have the time of my life when im up there!

Going to uni definetly helps - so u should be fine (until u have to come home again that is!)