attractive but shy

Luckily i'm very attractive (well thats what i've been told). So all the past girls i've been out with asked me out. And its easier then cos i no they actually really do like me. How do u get over the fear of rejection.

We'll be the judge. Post picture.

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Anonymous

Even though i've been told i'm attractive i fear askin out girls for fear of rejection.

... this may well be as you realise (hopefully) that it comes down to a lot more than how physically attractive you are and if a girl turns you down it's perhaps that she doesn't find you intellectually attractive etc

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Gman1617

OC_girl

... this may well be as you realise (hopefully) that it comes down to a lot more than how physically attractive you are and if a girl turns you down it's perhaps that she doesn't find you intellectually attractive etc

yea i doubt that i quite a nice person to talk to or so i've been told. i think its my confidence but i don't no because i should have a lot of it. because i've been out with some very attractive females both physically and intellectually

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Sithius

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mipmapped

We'll be the judge. Post picture.

Why? What business is it of yours if he does or not?

OP you need to work on your confidence; how exactly? I do not know. :/

Hope this helps.

Reply 6

notts

its hard.

have u ever asked anyone out? it gets easier after the first time.
i managed to stay pretty good friends with both the girls who i have asked out and rejected me.

so for asking im 2/4. that isnt bad odds.
just go for it.

but there are other ways to find out instead of just straight up asking. i normally seem to just get with girls mutually without asking

Reply 7

mipmapped

Why? What business is it of yours if he does or not?

I can't advise him until I know if he's attractive or not.

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I doubt he's as gorgeous as me, but it's possible he's reasonable looking.

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mipmapped

I can't advise him until I know if he's attractive or not.

Does it really make a difference? ;p

Reply 10

mipmapped

Does it really make a difference? ;p

Yes. If he's a minger, it's probably not the best advice to say 'just go up to girls and talk to them'.

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I think that if you say to a girl "Do you want to go for a drink tonight?" or something like that then it's just a friendly invitation and nothing to be nervous about. Then when you are out with her you'll probably be able to tell from the atmosphere between you and if it is you could ask her out again etc.

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Lucy_88

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Mr.God

I doubt he's as gorgeous as me, but it's possible he's reasonable looking.

Mr God if you really are as good looking as you are constantly making out, why is there no picture of you on your profile? I think we need to see a picture of your gorgeousness :p:

Reply 13

Lucy_88

Mr God if you really are as good looking as you are constantly making out, why is there no picture of you on your profile? I think we need to see a picture of your gorgeousness :p:

Because I wish to remain anonymous. People I know post here, and frankly I can be extremely brutal when I post here, whereas in real life I tend to be a lot more... restrained. I would just as soon not have people know how harsh I can be (even if it's justified).

However, I would be perfectly happy to PM you a picture of me, were you to give me your word that I would remain anonymous. :smile:

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Lucy_88

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Mr.God

Because I wish to remain anonymous. People I know post here, and frankly I can be extremely brutal when I post here, whereas in real life I tend to be a lot more... restrained. I would just as soon not have people know how harsh I can be (even if it's justified).

However, I would be perfectly happy to PM you a picture of me, were you to give me your word that I would remain anonymous. :smile:

Ok pm me a picture then. I will make sure you remain anonymous i swear on my dog's life (and i love my dog) :biggrin:

I couldn't tell anyone who you are anyway i still wouldn't know your name

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Lucy_88

Ok pm me a picture then. I will make sure you remain anonymous i swear on my dog's life (and i love my dog) :biggrin:

I couldn't tell anyone who you are anyway i still wouldn't know your name

Lucy, when you've seen his picture if he looks like Alan Rickman, Brian Molko or Niles from Frasier please please tell me so that i may stalk him :suith:

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I look nothing like any of them.

P.S: I'm gonna cut out your heart with a SPOOOOOON!

Reply 17

Mr.God

I look nothing like any of them.

P.S: I'm gonna cut out your heart with a SPOOOOOON!

He's slightly too young in Robin Hood, but in Love Actually... sexy. too sexy.

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