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The First Time

Sex.

Ok, its gonna happen! The thing is we've only been going out for 2 weeks and I have only known her for 2 months. (met her at induction for my sixth form)

Another problem is that there's nowhere else apart from my house to do it and I am not the kind of guy who doesn't listen to his parents and I really don't know how to ask either of them about this situation. I mean...who asks there parents where they first had sex?

So, is it my time? Or should I wait till I have my own apartment and have gone out with this girl for 2 years and am at University?

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Reply 1
Your parents must surely be out at some point, or just be quiet. Or if your that desperate get a cheap motel room for a couple of hours
Two weeks is a little early in my view to be having sex, but if that's what you want then you might wanna talk to your girlfriend first about it. Oh and use protection.
Reply 3
just be quiet.
if youre both ready it doesnt matter whos house it is.
Reply 4
'put pillow over her head'
*remove to allow air*
'put back'
Reply 5
RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTT.

Well, is your house were most of you guys did it? Because I know that I won't like the feeling when my mums cleaning the same bedsheet covers that I had sex on...
Do it when they're at a restaurent? Or likewise with her parents?

Or in a car? Playas do it in cars.
Reply 7
DUDE - USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!
nuff sed, if u done realise how this will solve ur problem, for the love of god do not have sex, instead put ur penis in an egg slice...

sorry for being harse - its bed time, and yet another person seems oblivious to contraception....

how do we get the mods to put it on h+r tht u must tick a box stating this doesnt comtain lack of knowledge regarding them....lol

in ansa to ur question.. yes
Reply 8
Ok, Im confused. Yes I will use a condom, now back to my original question.

Is it too early?
If not, where?
Reply 9
Robcampo
DUDE - USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!
nuff sed, if u done realise how this will solve ur problem, for the love of god do not have sex, instead put ur penis in an egg slice...

sorry for being harse - its bed time, and yet another person seems oblivious to contraception....


Where the hell did this come from????? This guy didn't mention contraception.

Maybe there should be a tick box labelled "I am not an ignoramus and can form coherant, relevant replies"?
Anonymous
Ok, Im confused. Yes I will use a condom, now back to my original question.

Is it too early?
If not, where?


It depends how you both feel as i said personally i think it's too early, but the only way of finding out is talking with your girlfriend on whether she wants it.
Reply 11
All these questions and more can be found by purchasing common sense.

sorry as i say its beddy time... :wink: lol

rite, you will know how u feel, ur gf will feel the same, ask her about it, talk, ALOT - this is the only way, dont plan for it to happen, but do be prepared... let the mood take u as u wish, yes in ur house, perhaps with music/tv turned up loud'ish - also follow my pillow advice above^^
Reply 12
Carl1982
It depends how you both feel as i said personally i think it's too early, but the only way of finding out is talking with your girlfriend on whether she wants it.


Just discussed it for about 15 minutes. Its really weird talking about doing it ^^.

And yes, she wants to do it tommorow. Its just a weird sensation and now it seems more like a job rather then pleasure.
Reply 13
doublex
Where the hell did this come from????? This guy didn't mention contraception.

Maybe there should be a tick box labelled "I am not an ignoramus and can form coherant, relevant replies"?


Along with the 'i have read the thread properly, and am not freaking out' button??

he said he doesnt want his mum cleanin his sheets... thus his mum finding a nice surprise.....

if he used a condom, this wouldnt happen, or if were bin pedantic about condom statistics 99.9% chance of the condom not breaking, thus not leaving his wrigglers all over the bed.....
Reply 14
haha :whip:
Well then don't do it. Have fun in any other way, or just relax together. If it's meant to be it'll happen. Plus, you probably won't enjoy it anywhere near as much if it feels like a job to you.

I'm sure your gf wouldn't like feeling like a job on a list...not really sexy!
Reply 16
personally, i think that if you're really concerned that it may be too early, it probably is a little early.

i'd also recommend doing it round her house if you're going ahead with it.

i know i'd rather get caught by a fella's parents than my own.oh the embarrassment :wink:
Reply 17
Anonymous
Just discussed it for about 15 minutes. Its really weird talking about doing it ^^.

And yes, she wants to do it tommorow. Its just a weird sensation and now it seems more like a job rather then pleasure.


hence the reason i said not to plan it, and just to be prepared... :wink:
Reply 18
Right I think I've got it sorted.

Yes since it feels like a job it won't be good, therefore I reckon i should wait rather then rush into things. Just talked to her on msn again and she agrees telling me that she also had butterflies in her stomach.
Well don't rush straight into sex, it's like foreplay you gotta wait.