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Fantasising

My girlfried tells me she doesn't fantasise about anything when masturbating... How can you masturbate but not fantasise? What do girls generally get turned on by? Not asking for details, i mean scenarios.

Reply 1

zav

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She just does not want to tell you what she thinks about.

shoe shopping?!

OP

LOL!
I know she's shy but I seriously think she doesnt...

Reply 4

Evil-Tuna

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She's just saying that to make you feel better, secretly she imagins Johnny Depp

Reply 5

lolly83

Erotic lit does it for me, but when my bf read it he laughed.
But then I saw a photo of a lady putting spoons up her woo hoo in his magazine and that made me laugh.
Men are from mars and all that c***

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

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stoney

shoe shopping?!

this turns you on? lool

Reply 7

LisaPizza

Um..I read in More magazine ages ago that women fantasise about sex with a stranger..being forced to have sex..sex with a celebrity..things like that. But yeh, most women fantasise.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

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lolly83

Erotic lit does it for me, but when my bf read it he laughed.
But then I saw a photo of a lady putting spoons up her woo hoo in his magazine and that made me laugh.
Men are from mars and all that c***

lol well photos dont do anything for me, neither do videos for that matter.
What sort of erotic literature are we talking about?

Reply 9

stoney

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LisaPizza

Um..I read in More magazine ages ago that women fantasise about sex with a stranger..being forced to have sex..sex with a celebrity..things like that. But yeh, most women fantasise.

yeah I have heard similar results from a survey on womens fantasies or something like that. omg you ladies are power/violence addicts to the max! lols

Reply 10

clearstudentdebt

ha ha, maybe because she is thinking about one of your mates..?

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

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LisaPizza

Um..I read in More magazine ages ago that women fantasise about sex with a stranger..being forced to have sex..sex with a celebrity..things like that. But yeh, most women fantasise.

yeh, what is it about that: being force to have sex? Funny. women like to dominate most scenarios in life... but like to be dominated in the bedroom. :wink:

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

You don't have to fantasise about anything.. I often don't. You just sort of enjoy the feeling - fantasising distracts me :p:

Mills and Boons

i like to think about oral sex :smile:

But i find that i can come faster by just thinking about how nice it feels as opposed to thinking about any specific scenario.

Reply 15

LisaPizza

Yeh..I guess we like the idea of being the innocent party in the situation and having things done to us. Either that or we're lazy :biggrin:

Reply 16

lolly83

Penguin print a load, look out for A spy in the house of love by anais nin, there's a collection called 'black lace' they're ok, think very naughty mills and boon.

Forbidden Flowers by nancy Friday is brilliant, basically she stuck an advert in a newspaper and got women to write down their fantasies and post them to her, then she printed them all!
Shop online at www.coc-de-mer.co.uk amazon or ann summers sometimes stocks them.
Happy reading!

Reply 17

LisaPizza